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Should I ask her out?

So I'm a lesbian, and I was finding it really hard to find other lesbians around, especially because I look super straight. So I joined tinder a little over a week ago,

There's this girls I've been talking to from day one, and I really like her! She's very smart and funny and we share the same

Morals etc. We've been talking for nearly a week now and I think it's time to ask her out before she starts getting bored.

Obvs I'll meet her in a crowded place on the off chance she is a murderer don't worry! But how should I ask her out? I don't want to come off creepy or desperate or anything, and where should I suggest we go?

Thank you 😊

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  • 6 years ago

    You can start things off perhaps by asking her if she'd like to meet up for coffee sometime. Or you could ask her out for lunch. Perhaps even offer to pay for her meal. You could go for a walk and a picnic in the park. Just think of places you could meet in public that would allow you to talk face to face and get to know each other better (which would rule out going to the movies as you won't get much of a chance to talk during the movie). Just casually drop the suggestion sometime. If she says yes then you have a date and if she says no then tell her that's fine and perhaps another time then and then leave it the ball in her court.

  • Anonymous
    6 years ago

    Why not

  • 6 years ago

    just cool-ly ask

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