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So Called Friends Ganging Up On Me?

So My friend Brianna and Ryan ganged up on me today. Brianna has been my friend since her freshmen year and my sophomore year. I just became "friends" with her friend Ryan. Today, they ditched me in target after we all went ice skating together for 2 hours. They kept hiding from me and when I found them, I was pissed off and I asked them, is that just hilarious to you? And they both laughed at me and said, yes! So I was kinda mad at that...later they apologized after I ignored them.

Later, they wanted to do truth or dare over the phone, so they called me in a 3 way call. I was watching TV, waiting for them to stop talking to each other. I didnt hear my name other than Bri explaining to Ryan that I didn't have Twitter, so then they got mad I didnt hear what they said. I was like, Oh sorry. And Brianna got mad at me saying I was ALWAYS watching tv. So they hung up on me.So I called them back but they declined it, saying I wouldnt pay attention. I said, they werent even talking about the game and they said they were and that they already gave me a dare but I wouldnt know because I wasnt listening. I told them it was because they didnt clarify they were starting.

Update:

Then they ganged up on me over text saying I was being a ***** and being rude (And all I told them before they said that was that they need to speak clearly and loudly because they were both talking at the same time). I apologized, turned off my tv and waited for them to call back, but they didnt, saying I wouldnt pay attention and that I ALWAYS act like this.

Which I dont. I have problems like this with Bri, but I thought Ryan was better than that. And when Bri gets mad at me, she forgets every

Update 2:

What do I do! I wanna be friends with them (even if its an abusive relationship) because I'm a lonely loser! But when I go to her tomorrow at school(if she doesnt hide from me) she'll say something probably like, "No, you were being rude and obnoxious and all you do is watch tv and ignore us. So we hung up on you. you always act like this and im sick of it. Im tired of your bad attitude, etc" All I do is sacrifice for her...she never remembers what I do for her...But I feel she wont care if i go

Update 3:

I've wanted to ditch her for a year now but I just cant! She comes back to me sometimes though, when she has someone to gossip or ***** about...but if our friendship really meant anything to her, wouldnt she try to fix it? I am always the one to go first and apologize and beg for her back because I want to be friends but she wont do it first. I always do that even if Im not at fault...is this a bad relationship? Also, she owes me $2.75...i'm not gonna get that money back am i...? plz help me:(

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  • Anonymous
    6 years ago

    Let them go and find some real friends .... & also grow some confidence never be anyone's doormat <33

  • 6 years ago

    all of you need to chill

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