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How do I get her to like me when she's too good for me?
There's this girl that I recently kinda like, but I've had past experiences with girls and I just get hurt every time. I wish I didn't fall in love, but I do. I fear that I may be falling in love with this one girl, but she's just so amazing and I know she'll just cause me pain in the end. I used to like her a while ago but she had a boyfriend and I was so hurt by the pain that I thought it would be a good idea to just shut everybody out of my life. She's really beautiful and talented and I don't know if I'm worth that. Another reason why I think she's too good for me is because she has perfect pitch, which essentially means she has the ability to hear a note and give the name of the pitch with nearly 100%, if not 100%, accuracy. My choir teacher says I also have perfect pitch, but it's "undeveloped" and I'm still in the process of developing it and learning how to use it effectively, since I just started singing last year. I'm worried I'll completely **** up with it and feel like I'm not even worth her time because of that one mistake. Though perfect pitch is also one of the reasons why I like her. And supposedly she's also not allowed to date, though she has said that it depends on the guy. This would mean that even if I can appeal to her and get past the fact that I may not even be worth her time in the first place, I'd still have to appeal to her parents. She smiles at me a lot, which is what caused me to like her in the first place, but I have no idea why she does that.
I like that she has perfect pitch because it's something we can relate on. We're in trigonometry together and I'm friends with her ex-boyfriend. We're also somewhat close friends, though we're not insanely close. I had a friend tell me that I shouldn't go through with it because it could make things awkward and I may never be able to talk to her again but I don't speak to her that often as it is so I suppose I'm willing to risk that. I just need help dealing with her parents.
2 Answers
- 6 years ago
I would like to first address that you're not in love with her. you're not even CLOSE to in love with her. if youre primary reasons for liking her is that she's pretty and has perfect pitch that means you have a CRUSH. don't get the two confused.
secondly, she's not too good for you. believe in yourself. you need to flirt with her, compliment her. she may not even know you like her. smile a lot, tell her she's pretty, tell you you love her pitch, tease her gently, make small physical contact if you're comfortable. you honestly just need confidence.
also, talk with her, bond over stuff you both like. invite her to do something to do with music or something else you both like. spend time with her. she needs to know you're interested. best of luck!
- 6 years ago
Honestly i just read the tittle..
BUT!.. No girl is to good for u
You shouldn't think so poorly about yourself, flirt with her, compliment her every now and then, it can totally make a difference!!