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Does this girl like me?

Before winter break started I asked this girl out that I work with. It was spur of the moment because I was interested in her for a while and I didn't know if I'd see her again after break. All went well and we went out the day before she left for winter break. Thing is, she didn't let me know she had a boyfriend until during our date. I really like this girl, and we have nearly everything in common, and it killed me hearing she had a boyfriend already. I didn't make a fuss though, and we went on talking for a while. Before the date ended, I asked her why she agreed to go out with me if she had a bf, which she replied saying she thought we could be really good friends. I pretty much have to agree with this so work isn't awkward. I don't mind at all being her friend, and actually would really like to be her friend since we have a lot in common, but I don't know if I can handle the feelings I have for her while trying to maintain an active friendship. The next day I sent her a pretty lengthy text apologizing for putting her on the spot with that question, but also saying that if she knew about my intentions, it was impolite of her for ignoring my intentions and not telling me she had a bf. We settled on giving the idea of being friends a shot, even though I have feelings for her.

The kicker is now is that she has texted me a few times since then, asking about my interests and just having random conversation. Idk if she's just being friendly, or does she genuinely like me?

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    Lv 4
    6 years ago

    She does like you but becareful, shes probably a teaser, or wants you as back up, you sound like a nice guy don't get hurt i would not be her friend having those feeling you're having.

    Source(s): ive been that girl
  • 6 years ago

    I guess she is just being friendly, and keeping you on hold. Its nice for people to have someone around who has a crush on them, and she is keeping the good feeling you give her, having a good conversation and at the same time being friendly.

  • 6 years ago

    I think she just wants to keep her options open. Screw her.

    Source(s): Im just messing wit u i have no idea
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