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Was I wrong in what I said?

My 21 year old brother and I have been on the rocks for a year now. Me being an 18 year old girl, he and I just don't get along. Well to make a long story short, he ended up getting on top of me, with with me yelling for him to get off. Instinctively I started to try and punch him in the balls while he was still bear hugging me on the floor. I yelled out "stop, this only makes it ok for others to do this". He freaked out, started screaming, called me a *itch,. He said it was the most hurtful thing I've ever said, and he actually started crying. He stormed out and drove off crying, is what I said wrong? I honesty think that if he had listened to my first command, everything would have been fine.

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  • 6 years ago

    He probably felt ******* weird after you made him maybe sort of feel like he just sexually assaulted his sister when he was probably joking around, albeit in a super immature way. Now, obviously if it makes you feel uncomfortable, he shouldn't be doing it. But.. it clearly wasn't sexual and you made it sexual. That's ******* awkward.

  • 6 years ago

    you both are way to old to be on top of each other. He did it in a brotherly way and YOU insinuated rape. It's disgusting. In that moment, you weren't thinking of him as your brother. I think you both need to step back from each other.

  • 6 years ago

    You guys are both too old to be fighting like this. Knock it off.

  • 6 years ago

    No, you were not wrong.

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