boyfriend lied about going out tonight for new years :( then told me to **** off :( please help?

I'm sorry about your situation, but like Ray said, you should stop seeing this guy.

If he's lying to you, and going out without you, then he's lost interest in you.

And it may or may not have anything to do with the fight.

Most likely that after 4 years he's been slowly losing interest.

Sometimes things like this happen.

And it's hard to let go.

There's better guys out there though.

If you do break up with him, then give yourself some time before seeing new guys.

I hope I helped xx

You need to tell him it's over. I know it's hard since you've been with him for 4 years. But it's better to walk away from a *** hole then to stick around and let him treat you like that, call you names and cheat

Why won't be tell me he went to the pub, why won't he wish me a happy new year, blah blah blah. Here's a better question for you. Why are you staying with a guy who is clearly treating you like dirt?

I'm really sorry about that...i really am. Unfortunately I don't have advice for you.. But I wish you the best ❤❤❤

Why are you still with him He is not with you not really and you know it. I think he is going to dump you so get ready for it but really why wait if he don't want to be with you, why do you want to be with him

You break up with him before he does it. He doesn't deserve you. What an ***!! Move on with your life sweetheart.

You poor thing, you should get a better boy friend. Why do you girls hook up with jerks, because he has looks???? That's what you get.

He's dicking another lovely woman

Women do not have emotions - so you could not possible care about that.

accept its over and move on ---- he is doing this to hurt you and probably break up with you ---- he is being a jerk