boyfriend lied about going out for new years. and then told me to **** off. Also I found out another lie . He still hasn't texted/called me?

I get you've been four years with the guy but does he? You say you rolled into 2015 crying, but from what you're telling me this guy is a cold hearted jerk. How did you last that long with him?

This is the brutal truth: We can't answer why he didn't tell you. Could be a number of things. He could be cheating, which explains his jerk-ish behavior, he could be getting over the relationship and just doesn't care, or he is just a plain jerk.

When he has cooled down, you need to speak with him and voice to him that this year, there will be no secrets, if the relationship is to survive. It really sucks you started your year off that bad and I really wish that it didn't happen to you... Goodluck and don't worry, things will get better!!

Hey I know this is going to be hard! Four years is a long time to be with someone, but it seems to me that your boyfriend is emotionally abusive and verbally abusive.

If you don't get out now then he could become physically or sexually abusive. Break up with him, get some friends or family members to hang out with and keep you happy for awhile.

Don't lock yourself in your room and cry for a week, stay active and stay happy but cry your feelings out if you need to once in awhile.

Just get out of that horrible man's life and save yourself!

My boyfriend has done the same thing before, It's hurtful and disrespectful. You deserve better he sounds selfish and arrogant. let him go spend every night with his friends and he will realize what a good thing he had and will try to come crawling back. Nobody realizes what they have until its gone.

Rude yes, immature yes, drunk n stupid probably........ See what happens we all do dumb sbit maybe it was his turn today. Don't give up

This is NOT okay!! You need to break up with him, and if you really cant find it in your heart to, at least tell him that he hurt you and to never lie to you again, or else its over.

Obviously... he has no respect for you. Sorry, but sounds like your relationship is a piece of crap. Either sit him down and fix it, or move on. Life is too short to be stuck with "dead heads".

Most likely he is with another girl - eat ice-cream get fatter, blame all men being the same.

Mackenzie, if you were my girlfriend, I'll say happy new year to you and spend it with you. I'll have sex with you all night long too. Is it okay if I ©um inside your vagina?

HAPPY NEW YEAR MACKENZIE!!!

What a jerk. I'd break up with him...

Stop pestering him he prob just wants some space smh