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Urgent girl help needed!!?

Ok, so there s this girl that I started Facebooking a few months ago, knew her from high school, only just bumped into her, etc.

Anyway asked her if she d like to catch up for a coffee, she said yes, then slowly stopped replying to my messages(Only sent one once a week roughly), most of them have been asking when she's free to set up a time for the coffee and how she's been, etc. That said, I m unexperienced with the art of flirting, so I don t think that helped at all...

What can I do to reignite the conversation with this girl? Also would sending her a small bouquet of flowers for Valentine's day be a good idea, or just a waste of money?

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    Yeah i think she may have lost interest. If you dont know the girl very well do NOT give her flowers. It would be considered very creepy. Well at least from my point of view.

    Don't text her back. Until she replies. And if you could be straight forward. Dont leave her to open ended questions such as " Are you free tuesday at 8?" be confident and say "I'll meet you at ___ at 5:30"

    if she doesnt reply dont be dishearted.Maybe ask her why she hasnt replied

    Good luck xx

  • 6 years ago

    I think maybe you should give her some space like text her in another week or two. If she doesn't answer you texts by then I think you should ask her why she hasn't replied in a nice way, or you could call her instead. Before sending her flowers make sure you're close to her enough. And if you think your close enough to her yet then I think you should play it cool and I think it would be romantic to ask her out on valentines day, but if you're not ready and you're close enough to her then sending her a bouquet of flowers is great too! I hope I helped!

  • 6 years ago

    Flowers would be a TOTAL WASTE of money!!! I'm sorry; but, she's LOST INTEREST!!! I think you should STOP sending her messages all together!!!

  • 6 years ago

    Its over man trust me. dont send her anything thats creepy

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