Is it normal to feel uncomfortable that my GF talks to her ex often?

I wouldn't call it abnormal to feel this way, since I get the reasoning; however, people amicably break up all the time so I wouldn't assume that there is any deeper meaning behind it. Remember, they got together for a reason in the first place, so chances are that they had good chemistry before hand. Not romantic chemistry, mind you, but one based on being friends. Really, I'd evaluate where you two are regardless of her ex and then, if you are satisfied with that, just let it be because it's probably fine.

If you are still uncomfortable, then I'd talk to her and say that it is something that bothers you. I'd be very blunt with why this bothers you and ask for a bit more info on the guy. Perhaps frame it in the way that, if you were still talking with the girlfriend you had prior to her, would she still be concerned? It's too much to try to break the connection; but, perhaps, you can see what that connection is and see that it's not threatening your relationship. I wouldn't be that guy who gets jealous of every male that talks to his girl. I'm so not saying that's you, but exes are something that we instinctively feel the need to inquire about regardless of gender.

Tell her that it's bothering you, and that you feel uncomfortable with her talking to him so much. I mean being her # 3 best friend on Snap Chat should tell you that they talk quite a lot. If she wouldn't like you talking to your ex girlfriend, then she shouldn't be talking to her boyfriend - that's being double standard.

If she won't let you view the messages/texts between the two of them, then she's defiantly hiding something from you that they've been talking about. If she continues to do this after the confrontation then you should probably not be with her (especially if you can't trust her) and if she continues doing something that makes you uncomfortable (that in return would also make her uncomfortable).

honestly it doesnt really sound like theyre doing anything sketchy or that shes still into him, theres plenty of people who are able to stay friends with their exes & nothing inappropriate going on. theyre friends

but, i still see why you feel uncomfortable. if it bothers you that much just (casually) bring it up with her, nonchalantly like you did with the snapchat thing

U shouldn't confront HER u should:

A: get a shotgun and blow off the guys window jump inside through it and threaten him into submisson

B:Get buff and kick his ***

Tell her this! It'll keep bothering you and driving a wedge until you do.

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Ofcourse tell her it makes you uncomfortable! You gotta say what you feel