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should i stay with a bad lab partner?
So I started college and met 2 girls who beacme my friends. They later both found boyfriends and barely hung out with me. We had group work once and I felt so stressed where my friend barely worked and I had to do everything. Now she's with me in lab and wanted to be my lab partner. I told you should work and you won't copy anything from me. Where I has bad experience with lab Partners before. Then I knew that she told my friend that I'm giving her a hard time . I got mad and told The teacher I don't wanna be partners with her cz hs doesn't work so my teacher said shell find a solution. What would I do? I really don't wanna be taken advantage of cz I was previously hurt because of this..do u think I did the right thing?
PS.my lab partner frnd has family problems so shes always skipping classes and out of focus..i do feel bad for her and want to help her but it would effect me badly at the end of the day right?
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- eyinpcbLv 46 years agoFavorite Answer
YES. You did the right thing. You expressed that they need to do their fair share. If they were a real friend, their response inside would have been "Oh man, I feel bad. I didn't want them to feel taken advantage of. I'm going to work really hard to make sure they don't feel that way." Instead her attitude was "Damn, this person is giving me a hard time."
They're using you. Maybe not on purpose, it could just be that they are the kind of people who will take advantage of situations whenever possible. But those people never make good friends. You're better off.
Try to find some new lab partners who are willing to do their share of the work, or can even improve your grades by challenging you and helping you study.
You can tell your friends that you need to focus on school when you are in class, and that while you like them, being lab partners with your friends distracts you and you need to put school first. Tell them you hope you guys can still hang out outside of class (if you even want that), but if not, you understand. If they don't want to hang, you know they weren't good friends in the first place.
Trust me, you're better off.
- LindaLv 45 years ago
well don't be all fake! be yourself. but how to flirt: just laugh cutely, and smile at him a lot. eye contact is also very important! you should try to like punch him PLAYFULLY!! :D and try to touch his hands like if your pencil is near his hand or something "accidently" bump into his hand and other excuses like that, later on in the year if you don't think it would be awkward for you and him, tell him you like it! life's short, live it fun!
