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How to not lead a girl on?

So, there's a girl that's clearly interested in me. She messages me all the time on facebook, at really weird hours (like sometimes one in the morning). I've caught her looking at me many times, and she asked me to hang out with her sometime a couple days ago. I'm going to be frank, I like her as a friend, but I don't find her attractive in anyway. I just want to make sure that I'm not giving any suggestions that I might like her. What do I do?

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  • 6 years ago

    Let her down easy. Tell her you are not gay/straight maybe. Or tell her you're unavailable. Say "Hey. I kind of got the feeling that you like me. I like you as a friend, but not in that way. I am not looking to date right now anyway and I'm really sorry if I was leading you on. But just know, even though nothing can happen between us right now, we shouldn't let it jeopardise our friendship."

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