*disgusted* boyfriends laundry....?

There's a very simple solution: Don't do his laundry. Grown men should know how to wipe their butts properly, and you should never ever have to clean that up. If you were doing his laundry, tell him from now on, he needs to do it himself. You're not required to touch his poopy undies, and make sure he knows it. You should think carefully about whether you want to be with someone who has such poor hygiene.

It is disgusting.

My last guy had this happen a couple of times, I told him I wasn't going to wash that crap (literally) and that if he couldn't wipe his butt better he could sleep at his place and do his own dam laundry.

No wonder I'm single (LOL!). You may not want to try this at home...

Honestly, this is probably his mom's fault. She probably never mentioned it and he probably thinks it's normal.

tell him otherwise his way of living will spread to other grotty actions, such as body odour, foul breath. . always judge a mans life by the way his bathroom has been treated

3years?!This is not going away overnight.He has obviously developed a bad habit since childhood.It's either you tell him or the next female.

Tell me. It is for his own good anyways.