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Is this completely sick and wrong?
I am sure that I will be getting some nasty comments but I need some advice really badly so here it goes...
I am twenty years old. I have been dating a 45 year old for around 7 months. It has all been online because he lives across the country. There is a part of me that is ok with the age thing because I love everything about him. But there is another part of me that questions why in the hell he would want to be with somebody so young? I am very mature but the age gap seems to be so significant that you would think that he wouldn't even want to go there.
hmmm. A lot of people say it is because he wants a pretty young thing and to have a fantasy in bed. But are all 45 year olds that go out with 19 to 20 year olds like this? Will I look back and cringe? Should I walk away or stay?.... Is this even right at all?
5 Answers
- ?Lv 76 years ago
I tend to think older men wanting a young woman isn't wrong, they fantasize too. I do question any 18 or 20 year old young woman looking to a 45 year old man as her choice for arousal, and sexual bliss. As a young man of almost 23, I know young women are seeking virile males who can get it up and keep it up, who have stature physically, and hard physical attributes. Having a brain and strong employment and career skills, and good looks don't hurt his resume, and being 6'2 helps his disposition, and gives a girl an insight to what might be more exciting than an older man. That said, it isn't sick and wrong for the 25+ year difference, actually a generation in length, but it doesn't define a reason. That I think is worth exploring.
- Anonymous6 years ago
Well for starters.... imagine being a 45 year old man... you are getting older.. slowing down.. getting weaker and then all the sudden a young 20 year old woman shows interest.... what man wouldn't be happy with that?? Instead of cruising for chicks at bingo he can have you... normally these types of relationships don't work out.. and it isn't wrong just different... and I'm curious... did you have a dad around growing up? Noticed a lot of times women in this type of situation didn't have a father around them growing up
- 6 years ago
Actually I believe an older man can fall in love and marry a younger woman.Do some research on him if he has a shady past then I would say walk away.If nothing in his past makes you cringe or gives you second thoughts then be happy with him.I am not one to judge because I myself prefer an older gentlemen.I always have.I wish you the best with which ever path you choose. :-) No I do not believe it is sick or completely wrong.Guys at any age can be creeps or gentleman.
- Anonymous6 years ago
Yes
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