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Anonymous asked in Family & RelationshipsSingles & Dating · 6 years ago

Girl too embarrassed to be seen with me?

We're both in college, and I've had a crush on her for a while. We're close friends, we sit together, and we text a lot. But I feel like she's always embarrassed to be seen with me. She's really popular, while I'm the sort of guy who sits in the corner with a couple friends. I'm at the bottom when it comes to popularity.

-Anyway, for her birthday, I drew her a portrait, as I'm an artist and I'd like to think I'm really good at it.

I handed it to her when I saw her in class, she smiled and said she loved it, and she couldn't stop talking about it with me.

But then later that day, she uploads it to Facebook, but my signature was erased, and I wasn't mentioned at all. The next day, I jokingly ask her why she erased my name, but she stutters and says ''I'm afraid my dad

would think wrong, he's overprotective''.

-We were once hanging between classes. I asked her to sit with me in the cafeteria, but she declined saying ''I get claustrophobic inside''.

-She erases her texts with me every single day. She texts me first most of the time mind you, so I know I'm not some clingy b*stard she wants to forget.

-She has no problem hanging out with other guys. She's a flirt with them too.

What do you think I should do? Valentine's is coming up and I was thinking of asking her out, but whenever I think of her I just get angry, as no one deserves the treatment she's giving me.

Any advices?

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  • 6 years ago

    Well, if she's embarrassed to be with you, then you shouldn't waste your time. Might sound harsh, but I think you can find and deserve better. I mean, is popularity still really a thing in college? I thought that was only in middle school or something. Smh, bruh. Find another chick :3

  • 6 years ago

    well it's pretty obvious she's casually interested but i think you deserve better. i mean if she truly honestly liked you she would never- i repeat- never delete your messages. you could ask her for valentines, but if youre willing to risk the test to prove your suspicions, while asking try inviting her somewhere her friends might also be. if she suddenly cant you can go along with it and treat her nicely and all at first and ignore her like hell after that. this way she'll be pretty shocked. if she comes back for you, test her by going on a date where her friends might see. if she doesnt mind then she might actually like you. if not, she might like you but not enough for her friends to know.

    but there is a tiny possibility she likes you but she doesnt want other people to tease you guys. but seeing as how she likes ti flirt with other guys i doubt that but still possible.

    sorry if it's a bit long

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    6 years ago

    Hun, if you truly think she's embarrassed of you, dump her. There's no reason to keep staying in a relationship if you can't be with someone who is proud of you, regardless of the reason.

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