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Ex-gf asks "are you doing okay?" 4 days after breakup. How do I respond?
My first response was "I'm alright. You?". She didn't even answer back. Is she upset that I give her such a generic douchebag answer? Did she want me to be more honest? We didn't really break up on bad terms. We both still love each other. I don't understand why she doesn't respond back (its been 12 hours) if she was the one who asked first. Should I reply and say sorry and be more honest on how I'm doing? Because really I'm not doing alright, I miss her like crazy. I don't know what answer she is expecting.
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- 6 years ago
Need more details, like why and who broke up with who? If she broke up with you and for some reason you both still love each other, why did y'all break up? Was it because of complications? Et cetera, et cetera. The thing is, if y'all still love each other then it's okay to be honest, however, only do that if you're entirely sure she still loves you back. If you're not sure, then what you answered is perfectly okay and she probably just wanted to check up and see that you're not devastated. If you are devasted and not sure that she still loves you, you need to make sure that you stay strong and try not to show any vulnerability. The only person you should show vulnerability to is whomever you're with currently or your family.