Women, need an opinion on first date etiquette for men?

I'll break it down into a few numbered bulletins (forgive me, I'm an over thinker):

1. I know I should open doors for her, but does that include my car door?

2. My car is old and it squeaks when I turn the wheels, is it embarrassing to be picked up and driven around in this sort of vehicle?

3. It would seem to me that truely listening to her and responding is probably the most important part of the date. Is that true?

4. If she insist on splitting the bill, is it okay to let her?

5. I know kissing on the first date is most often a no-no, so when i walk to the door, how should i leave it to let her know i want to see her again? A hug? A peck on the cheeck?

6. How does mini golf and fro-yo sound for originality, fun, and ability to have conversation?

We are 20 and 21 years old, and this will be my first official "first date" ever. We don't know each other well; we've only met briefly once or twice. She baby sits my boss' kids and it's my boss who is wanting to set us up.