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I just broke up with my bf of 13 months and i realized i didn't love him.?

after breaking up with him because i'm moving away he has been begging me to take him back and has also been really mean even though i've told him it wasn't him and that I still loved him but he still made it out like i just didn't care for him and blah blah blah. after a week of not being together he has deleted me off of everything and said he never wants to speak to me again, but is now begging for me back. After all of this i am realizing i am already over him and he is just wasting him time texting me and telling me he misses me and ****. How do let him know that because I've already gotten over all of it and i could care less, that i've realized i guess I never was truly in love? I don't mean to sound horrible but that's just how I feel.... but I want him to know so he can move on too. It wasn't him personally, things just change

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  • ME
    Lv 6
    6 years ago

    I think you have the right idea by not reciting a laundry list of faults or letting loose with a barrage of criticism. In fact, instead of saying, “You don’t do this” or “You never do that,” it would be better to use phrases that focus on how you feel—“I need a person who . . .” or “I feel that this relationship should end because . . .”

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