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Stay with boyfriend or pursue career?
My boyfriend have been together for quite some time. I really love him and could see us being together for a lifetime. He s very sweet and has been discussing marriage lately. I am currently in college and just got offered a one in a lifetime opportunity of free college tuition at my dream school. Not to mention that the state I currently reside in doesn t offer the degree I dreamt of pursuing, so I m currently going to college for something different. I feel like I m stuck in a hole. I know long distance doesn t work, and all of his family is here. How do I decide if I should stay with him, or leave? What if it was meant to be with him? But then again what if it doesn t work out between us, and I regret not accepting the offer for the rest of my life?
5 Answers
- SummerLv 46 years ago
Go for the college opportunity.
I would have the same thoughts as you are, if I was in that situation. But the thing is, this is something you will regret not doing for the rest of your life. I'm sure he will understand. You can try long distance, it doesn't work for many people but I do know that it's possible to work. Maybe he can move to where you are going too.
- 6 years ago
If it's meant to be it will be. This is once in a lifetime opportunity and it's your dream. Any guy who honestly loves you will understand. You have to go.
If you don't go you might end up resenting him for it. Especially, if you break up. All my friends who either left school or changed to a different school to be with their boyfriend/girlfriend all broke up with in year. They all regret it
You are at a point in your life were main focus is you.
Follow your dreams. If loves you and it's meant be like you think it is it will all work out in the end.
- 6 years ago
if your boyfriend really does love you he would support any decision you want to make. Getting a chance to go to your dream school is big! And i think you should take it... Itll be hard to leave the one you love. But if you honestly feel you would be with him for a lifetime you both would wait until you came back for school. So sit down and talk with him, he should be supportive of you and not hold you back. If your love if true he will wait for you.
Hoped i helped :)
- ?Lv 46 years ago
If its really meant to be u two will make it thru even if its long distance. He will have to support u because not everyone gets this amazing opportunity! And u did! Congratulations
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- JolieLv 76 years ago
You should talk with him and see if he would be willing to go with you. He should most definitely encourage you to be your best.
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