What was the worst thing your love one has ever done to you? And did you eventually forgave them for what they had done?

the worse thing my bf has ever done to me, he played me, he did everything for me, he was always there for me, we spent all our timr together,together for 5 years, we have two kids but he lived a double life, he was in a relationship with another girl for the last 6 years, he has a 1 yr old with her, the day I found out he left me,,,went back with her, then he comes trying to win me back..we planned a trip to mexico, I couldn't go because I just had our first son,,he went was gone for 3 months, I learned he took her, they were planning atrip for next month, he was honest with us and said he loved me more, but he stayed with her because she has no family, no job, no place to go and wants to be there for his son, which hurt I have his two kids but he like didn't consider them, being around his family his friends, who all know what he was doing, we went everywhere, we went on dates, but he took her out as well, it hurts, it killed me.

we are being friends now, we are being civil for our kids, hes trying to win me back, its hard because I loved him, I thought we had something real, something that would last, but it was just a lie to him,

to forgive him? I don't think I ever could, I was honest with him about everything, anytime ea guy looked or tried flirting I told him,,but he always got mad at me, when I ignored the guys, he still got mad at me, but in reality here he is,,,being in love with someone else

he tells me I better not move on, I bettr be just his, and its like u moved on, I was nothing to you,

I cant forgive him, but that's the worse thing

My ex left me without much warning after 4yrs together. I'd helped him lots in everything and when I wS no longer of use to him he left. He broke my heart. I begged and pleaded with him to come back and I cried every day for 3 months. I would call him begging him to come back and he would laugh and mock me saying I was crazy. I then had a drunken one night stand! Best thing I ever did. But like a fool I got back with my ex. It wS hell. He treated me so bad for a further 8 months. I tried so hard to love him again and make him happy but every day was hell. He cheated and lied and then he left me again. I didn't cry that time. I was relieved. I since found out he actually married his other gf during this time and got her pregnant. I will never forgive him for wasting 5yrs of my life and using me. One day he will get what's coming. I lost everything to be with him. I'm now in another relationship and I know this is true love. It's so different. But I need to f@k up my ex one day n I will

My ex husband walked out the door after 30 years of marriage... He was abusive in all ways.. It's been three years.. And there has been NO contact with his kids either.. It's like he died.. He left me to sell the house.. Sort the divorce out.. Sent me letters via his solicitor of ways I could earn more money as he had to support his new partner with her divorce and sent me house details of where to live cheaper.. As in his eyes I'd never be blonde enough earn enough or thin enough as I was never enough...although it was horrid.. Three years on.. I'm free ☺️

And yes... I forgive him.. So that I can move on.. But my sons??.. I have no idea if they ever will.. In their words.. Why do we want to get in contact?.. You were mum n dad to us .. They are my rocks..

And my ex.. I wish him well.. He's getting married again to the woman he cheated on me with.. And I'm single.. But happy ☺️.. Life happens..and there lies another story....

he accidently knocked his glass of iced tea into my lap...at a restaurant.

WHAT is there to forgive? It wasn't deliberate & I am waterproof...I won't melt away. Besides the horrified looks on his face and that of the server had me laughing almost as soon as it happened.

That was seven years ago...honestly, he's done nothing that warrants forgiveness.

I can't think of anything my husband has ever done to mt that I'd consider it needing to be forgiven. We sometimes disagree, but that's any 2 people.

He cheated on me and got the ***** pregnant, still battling not sure if I should forgive