GS: Why are men defined only by what car they have?

females have no innate interest in males and see a male only as a potential source of financial support. why would she care about your personality?

because women are shallow. Lazily shallow in fact. They really don't care to know too much nor are they very good at acknowledging or relating to man's language or logic. So, their favorite form of relation to a man isn't cerebral.

They prefer rather the identification of fashion trends and monetary excess to define a man's worth and decide based off of that whether he is successful or not.

Maybe I don't come from affluence but I've never noticed anyone give much care to what cars people drive, well unless they own a rusty old bucket

They're not. I get what you're saying though. You're saying that men are 'objectified' for their money if I'm not mistaken. Eh. Women like money. Men like cute faces and nice boobs. I guess it all works out in the end.

We are? Really?

That means I'm defined by my fiancee's Toyota Corolla... what does that say about me?

I'm non existent then. Haha, unless you're in an Audi R8, you get way more attention on a motorbike anyway. ;)

they have low self esteem. Insecure. Don't love what they see in the mirror.

but at least in modern days here people aren't judging people by the things that they own. Only people that do that are people who are going to leave you.

What if I don't have a car?

Only idiots define men solely by the car they drive.

By who's terms ? Not mine, that's for sure.