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? asked in Family & RelationshipsSingles & Dating · 6 years ago

hey friends...please help....how can i get over obsessive crush ?

2 yrs ago there was a girl i liked in my coaching..i liked her a lot..but since i am a shy guy i didnt have courage to go talk to her...in desperation i stole her number..and unintentionaaly irritated her..i told her tht i have dreams about her(although it was true)...but i shouldnt hve said that..she forgave me...we are fb friends now...this happened 2 years ago..now she doesnt come on fb and i came to know she is in good commited relationship with her bf...i want to move on but i cant..i am obsessed over her...i still am hopelessly hopeful that one day i will get her...after wasting 2 years in hope...i think now hoping that oneday she will be mine is safer..i wont b able to get any other..i am afraid to fall in love with any other girl now..i am confused....pls guide me...isnt it wrong to forget her and fall in love with another girl???i mean i truly loved her..it would be wrong to fall in love with any other girl..it would be unfair to both her and any other girl...it would be doing disservice to my love for her..

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  • Leo
    6 years ago

    Well mate, if you fall in love with another gal there is nothing wrong with it and it's not unfair to her. That is if you have stopped loving the previous gal. Now listen mate, the best thing you can do to forget her is to stop worryin about forgetting her, or if falling in love again is wrong, in fact stop thinking of love, period. Next distraction yourself with an activity that will take up so much of ye time and thoughts that you wont even be able to think of her since ye gonna be as busy as a one armed wallpaper hanger. Me distraction is Rugby, when soemthin like this comes along I let Rugby consume me daily life.

  • A thought
    6 years ago

    Well say if you do take her away from the other guy, then she may leave you for another guy because she is a dis loyal person.

    So just hope she is a loyal person and stays with the person she is with for ever, and one day you will find another that is just as loyal.

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