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i love japanese culture and would love to form friendships with Japanese people..any suggestions from japanese people are most welcome

please i want to know real honest answers about us..and preferably from Japanese people..honest answers would be appreciated

Are local Japanese people getting interested in the sport? there was an article in news which said that cricket is gaining popularity in baseball crazy Japan..is it really true??

i overthink too much about my flaws..even when i am studying i automatically start to think about my flaws and ruin my studies..i get depressed and anxious about future because of that..how will i overcome all this??i start to get demotivated and lose the will to function feeling its all pointless..my problem is i have very poor communication and interpersonal skills and i remain very anxious about how will i make it in this world..i have mental blocks when talking to girls..even in my class i dont have a courage to approach girls because i am boring and i dont have topics apart from studies..and i also feel that they will find me clingy..please help me how to unshackle my mind ..and will going to gym and personality classes help ???

i overthink too much about my flaws..even when i am studying i automatically start to think about my flaws and ruin my studies..i get depressed and anxious about future because of that..how will i overcome all this??i start to get demotivated and lose the will to function feeling its all pointless..my problem is i have very poor communication and interpersonal skills and i remain very anxious about how will i make it in this world..i have mental blocks when talking to girls..even in my class i dont have a courage to approach girls because i am boring and i dont have topics apart from studies..and i also feel that they will find me clingy..please help me how to unshackle my mind ..and will going to gym and personality classes help ???

I feel longing for that time when i was completely innocent and childish(still am)..no girls on my mind,no technology to screw us over....just play with neighbourhood friends and study hard were goals of life.everything seemed fine...but boy..things have changed now..everyone has grown up and become more cunning and cruel...i dont know how to manipulate and trick people..but past experiences have told me its necessary in today's world..but when i think of that i am horrified to think that i have to become like this..my innocent face of childhood comes in front of me and it makes me cry and feel nostalgic..that why all bad things had to happen??..when i see face of my mom...she has innocent face and is so worried about me....i am melted and feel i shouldn't become like other people..i am 21.i never had any female friend..dont know how to talk to and behave around girls.. i feel despo and perverted everytime i see a girl..and i fear that i may misbehave with girl as i dont know social ettiquites and have desperate feelings... i dont know how will i survive in this cunning world....

I feel longing for that time when i was completely innocent and childish(still am)..no girls on my mind,no technology to screw us over....just play with neighbourhood friends and study hard were goals of life.everything seemed fine...but boy..things have changed now..everyone has grown up and become more cunning and cruel...i dont know how to manipulate and trick people..but past experiences have told me its necessary in today's world..but when i think of that i am horrified to think that i have to become like this..my innocent face of childhood comes in front of me and it makes me cry and feel nostalgic..that why all bad things had to happen??..when i see face of my mom...she has innocent face and is so worried about me....i am melted and feel i shouldn't become like other people..i am 21.i never had any female friend..dont know how to talk to and behave around girls.. i feel despo and perverted everytime i see a girl..and i fear that i may misbehave with girl as i dont know social ettiquites and have desperate feelings... i dont know how will i survive in this cunning world....

She and i were friends on facebook...i considered her more than a friend..she was like a sister to me...when she was down i lifted her up several times..but she never wanted to meet me..only chat on social media...i trusted her like anything..told all my secrets to her...to me she was more than a real sister(i dont have one) but 2 years ago she blocked me from all social media over a small dispute saying that she had known all along that i wanted to use her for my selfish reasons(i liked her best friend and she knew it)..whenever i tried to make up with her(i had her contact no which is same)...she insulted me and called me loser,she hates me,mentally retarded and what not...this after all good things i have done for her.i begged for her forgiveness several times and she kicked me when i was down..i was literally in depression for several months....for last 1.5 years my life has taken a turn for better(thank you God) and i have forgotten about her completely..i am motivated by my determination to prove myself to the world..but yesterday i found that she has sent me a friend request....i was shocked beyond belief..thinking boy..tables do turn..everyone salutes a rising sun...i discussed it my friends and they said have some self respect..don't add her..another one is saying play hard to get(accept her request after 1 week)...i have not forgotten about things she did to me....but a part of me wants to add her and make her jealous by watching my success...... what should i do..

i am 21 yr old boy living in Delhi,India.i was always a insecure,unpopular and nerdy guy. never had any interactions with girls even during school..therefore i never been around a lot of girls..i don't have a sister as well..so i really don't know how to talk to girls..now everyday when i see lots of girls in metro and other public places i stare them like i am desperate ..i cant help it.. i feel regret that i couldn't grow up more socially confident..i see all these girls as opportunities wasted to find a friend/girlfriend..i fantasize a lot about having a girlfriend and sex with her..i feel guilty for thinking about the girls this way..this is not what my parents have taught me..but i cant help it...my friends say i am too innocent and all these things are normal..while it might be true,i cannot help but feel guilty about my thinking.however,i cant deny that i want a Girlfriend so that she makes my boring life more beautiful...i have more sexual thoughts everyday..In my office and neighbourhood there are no girls and i feel stuck..how can i find a Girlfriend..please help

i have had a crush on this girl for 3 years now..she has a bf and she is commited to him.but i know they are going through a rough patch...actually in past i stole her number and unintentionelly harrased her in desperation..i never meant to hurt her.so she knows i have a crush on her.my friends have told me to forget her..but i cant forget her..she has blocked me of all possible social media..i want her in my life...i want her to be my gf and make my world beautiful..how can i get her by law of attraction..please help me

i am a Chartered Acoountancy student..i graduated from high school in 2013...since childhood i was made to believe that if i study hard and get good grades i will get everyhting i want in life...good job..RELATIONSHIPS,friend circle etc..i was made to believe by my parents that studies are the only thing that should be done in school..and as gullible as i was..i completely believed them..i worked hard in studies.and as a result became nerd..i never made any friends.never went to parties..after 3 years of graduating from school life.i still have no clue as to how to sociallise..how to make new friends..i feel completely hopeless now...our course demands regular study.since its a open course we have no college life..and for virtually my whole life i never had any fun..never went to hang out with friends unfortunately i knw bettr nw..while studies do get you good job..does it really help you in personal life also???i was made to believe it and got hurt when i faced the reality..now i feel demotivated to study..i still have no social circle..no social life..no friends at all..just home to office and office to home..my office collegues are all seniors and fake so i have no firends there also..is all this stuggle worth it??i feel very nostalgic..i feel i should have not known this bitter truth until i completed my CA degree..now i wonder whether all this struggle is worth it??i always craved for good friend circle because i was always lonely from the childhood..now i feel trapped

i am 19 year old boy...my parents and older brother always fight amongst themelves...everyday they find a reason to pick on each other and start a bigggg fyt...naturally atmosphere always remains negative because of all this...and i become depressed and full of self doubts because my mom always taunts me on small things and always discourages me..she lets me know that i am less important than boys of my age..i feel inferior to them coz i am a nerd(i am good in studies..nthng else).. i am embarrased by the way we live..no ettiquetes,no manners at all in our family..thats why i am socially awkward too....i have no confidence in myself...and i fear the worst all the time..because of my past.i ve been defrauded and cheated a lot of times..i live in negative environment..its very hard to stay positive and feel positivity...i have no good freinds at all...i rarely go out..i feel depressed most of the times....i have tried severall times to tell my parents how much their behaviour hurts me..but they never listen...they say its yur destiny because u were born in this family...i feel i will never get what i want even if i work hard...i always remain depressed because of atmosphere in my home...i cant feel positive...

what do u do when you're victim of politics

i mean when you are made to be bad guy in front of your crush by her bestie

you obviously cant compete with him in terms of friendship with her..and she would obviously trust her bestie over you even if her bestie is wrong and you tried to explain her..your image will be potrayed as a bad.....actually same thing happened with me... :( i(A) made fb friends with my crush's(B) close friend(C)..and since i trust easily i told him(C) my feelings for my crush(B) because he was the one to start this topic about her...3 days later my crush(B) messages me and is mad at me because i back bitched about her(thats what her close friend(C) told her)..i explained everything to her.. i am in contact with her only through fb.. she is not online most of the times..although she believed me..yesterday her close frnd(C) messaged me and threatened me to stay in my limits because i was filling her ears about him...i told him that mistake was his... now i am worried that he can easily influence my crush coz he is her close friends and they live only a block apart and also on whatsapp...i have no source to tell her my side of story..she would not believe me..not against him..i always fear that if i offend her close friends my chances of friendship with her will reduce considerably.i cant think of forgetting her..even if i try..i only hurt myself...her friendship is what keeps me motivated towards life...please help me..i badly want to be her friend

what do u do when you're victim of politics

i mean when you are made to be bad guy in front of your crush by her bestie

you obviously cant compete with him in terms of friendship with her..and she would obviously trust her bestie over you even if her bestie is wrong and you tried to explain her..your image will be potrayed as a bad.....actually same thing happened with me... :( i(A) made fb friends with my crush's(B) close friend(C)..and since i trust easily i told him(C) my feelings for my crush(B) because he was the one to start this topic about her...3 days later my crush(B) messages me and is mad at me because i back bitched about her(thats what her close friend(C) told her)..i explained everything to her.. i am in contact with her only through fb.. she is not online most of the times..although she believed me..yesterday her close frnd(C) messaged me and threatened me to stay in my limits because i was filling her ears about him...i told him that mistake was his... now i am worried that he can easily influence my crush coz he is her close friends and they live only a block apart and also on whatsapp...i have no source to tell her my side of story..she would not believe me..not against him..i always fear that if i offend her close friends my chances of friendship with her will reduce considerably.i cant think of forgetting her..even if i try..i only hurt myself...her friendship is what keeps me motivated towards life...please help me..

i am 19 year old boy...my parents and older brother always fight amongst themelves...everyday they find a reason to pick on each other and start a bigggg fyt...naturally atmosphere always remains negative because of all this...and i become depressed and full of self doubts because my mom always taunts me on small things and always discourages me..she lets me know that i am less important than boys of my age..i feel inferior to them coz i am a nerd(i am good in studies..nthng else).. i am embarrased by the way we live..no ettiquetes,no manners at all in our family..thats why i am socially awkward too....and i am concerned about my children...i dont want them to suffer same fate as i did..i mean my parents ruined my childhood with their backward and limiting beliefs..i do love them and know they care for me...but actually there is a lot of physical violence in our house and my father doesnt haved

i am 19 year old boy...i have specs of high power -6.0..there is structural defect in my eyes and its genetic(all my paternal relatives wear specs)..i am a student but i have to regularly use computers and screens..i cant avoid them...i want lasik surgery to get rid of my glasses(they look bad) but i am very much concerned about its consequences...i have heard that after lasik surgery eyesight deteriorates after 20-30 years and the damage done is irreversible...if not lasik surgery..please tell me some other way to get rid of glasses of this high power(except contact lens because they are high maintainence)

i and she were close friends....i shared my every secret,my family problems,my past with her...i expected her to understand me after knowing all about me...but in last 3 months or so i irritated her with constant texts and ol even after she repeatedly told me not to....and hence she blocked me....from every social networking site...i made fake id with other name and sent her request texting her that that person(id with other name) is my good friend..she replied to that person like this "I am the most irritating person she has met,MENTALLY ILL,and she will take action against me if i dont stop bothering her" i am deeply upset after reading this....i understand her saying me irritating..but how could she say me MENTALLY ILL... even after i told her everything about me,my past...i expected her to atleast understand me...after what i've been through...i am deeply upset..seriously...after her comments...she wouldnt have achieved half of what i have if she were to encounter similar circumstances..she is blessed with good family and lots of good friends..i am not(i live in abusive and dysfunctional family and socially weak)..i have seen public humiliation..she has not...i expected her to understand me....i will never trust anybody again..never tell my secrets to anybody again....i feel totally worthless today..i hve no right to make friends..i am destined to be lonely...how can i forget her...like we never knew each other ???? i treated her as my sister.

i have had a crush on this girl for 2 years now....she has a boyfreind and she is in commited relationship with him...me and her are fb friends and we havent talked much in these 2 years....never personally met her..actually i stole her number and unintetionally harassed her in desperation.i never meant to hurt her..my friends have told me to forget her..but i cant forget her :( now just recently i read about law of attraction that universe will manifest whatever u need...u just have to trust...is it really possible ??????can law of attraction really help me to get her????

2 yrs ago there was a girl i liked in my coaching..i liked her a lot..but since i am a shy guy i didnt have courage to go talk to her...in desperation i stole her number..and unintentionaaly irritated her..i told her tht i have dreams about her(although it was true)...but i shouldnt hve said that..she forgave me...we are fb friends now...this happened 2 years ago..now she doesnt come on fb and i came to know she is in good commited relationship with her bf...i want to move on but i cant..i am obsessed over her...i still am hopelessly hopeful that one day i will get her...after wasting 2 years in hope...i think now hoping that oneday she will be mine is safer..i wont b able to get any other..i am afraid to fall in love with any other girl now..i am confused....pls guide me...isnt it wrong to forget her and fall in love with another girl???i mean i truly loved her..it would be wrong to fall in love with any other girl..it would be unfair to both her and any other girl...it would be doing disservice to my love for her..