please help me out????

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what do u do when you're victim of politics 
i mean when you are made to be bad guy in front of your crush by her bestie 
you obviously cant compete with him in terms of friendship with her..and she would obviously trust her bestie over you even if her bestie is wrong and you tried to explain her..your image will be potrayed as a bad.....actually same thing happened with me... :( i(A) made fb friends with my crush's(B) close friend(C)..and since i trust easily i told him(C) my feelings for my crush(B) because he was the one to start this topic about her...3 days later my crush(B) messages me and is mad at me because i back bitched about her(thats what her close friend(C) told her)..i explained everything to her.. i am in contact with her only through fb.. she is not online most of the times..although she believed me..yesterday her close frnd(C) messaged me and threatened me to stay in my limits because i was filling her ears about him...i told him that mistake was his... now i am worried that he can easily influence my crush coz he is her close friends and they live only a block apart and also on whatsapp...i have no source to tell her my side of story..she would not believe me..not against him..i always fear that if i offend her close friends my chances of friendship with her will reduce considerably.i cant think of forgetting her..even if i try..i only hurt myself...her friendship is what keeps me motivated towards life...please help me..i badly want to be her friend

vivi · Answer

Lol with the B & C I got a little confuse? Well what matters is i think you should try to talk to her personality and just be honest with everything you tell her HONEST! Also if the bestie close friend lol I got confused is making you look like the bad person find evidence to show your crush that you didn't do/say that mmhmh for example screen shot the messages what her bestie says to you take a picture of what ever thing that will benefit you also if her bestie say nasty things to you what a better way to record the conversation and then show it to your crush... sometimes it's not good to trust closest people we think are our friends.. personal experience. Well I hope this helps? Sorry I was a little bit confused😂

Ina · Answer

This seems like just a bunch of unwanted drama and attention. I'd just stop with both of them. But if you still want her, then try to talk to her in person, without her bestie there. Ask to speak to her alone. Sound sincere. Tell her how you feel.

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