i am a 21yr old guy and i feel i am becoming pervert.is this normal ??

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i am 21 yr old boy living in Delhi,India.i was always a insecure,unpopular and nerdy guy. never had any interactions with girls even during school..therefore i never been around a lot of girls..i don't have a sister as well..so i really don't know how to talk to girls..now everyday when i see lots of girls in metro and other public places i stare them like i am desperate ..i cant help it.. i feel regret that i couldn't grow up more socially confident..i see all these girls as opportunities wasted to find a friend/girlfriend..i fantasize a lot about having a girlfriend and sex with her..i feel guilty for thinking about the girls this way..this is not what my parents have taught me..but i cant help it...my friends say i am too innocent and all these things are normal..while it might be true,i cannot help but feel guilty about my thinking.however,i cant deny that i want a Girlfriend so that she makes my boring life more beautiful...i have more sexual thoughts everyday..In my office and neighbourhood there are no girls and i feel stuck..how can i find a Girlfriend..please help

Nitro · Accepted Answer

It's normal to think about sex.  Every human does, and you should never feel guilty about that.  However, just don't turn into one of those guys who uses women for sex or makes his lust for them known in a public forum.  A lot of women get creeped out when guys stare at them.  The key to getting a girlfriend is to 1) appear confident with yourself, 2) not act desperate or appear like you're trying too hard, and 3) make a girl feel comfortable around you.

Anonymous · Answer

It's the hormones just go on omeagle and join your hor.ny Indian brothers

Steffan · Answer

Gee, too bad you don't have a sister.

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i am a 21yr old guy and i feel i am becoming pervert.is this normal ??

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