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? asked in Family & RelationshipsFriends · 6 years ago

hey how do i navigate this situation ??

what do u do when you're victim of politics

i mean when you are made to be bad guy in front of your crush by her bestie

you obviously cant compete with him in terms of friendship with her..and she would obviously trust her bestie over you even if her bestie is wrong and you tried to explain her..your image will be potrayed as a bad.....actually same thing happened with me... :( i(A) made fb friends with my crush's(B) close friend(C)..and since i trust easily i told him(C) my feelings for my crush(B) because he was the one to start this topic about her...3 days later my crush(B) messages me and is mad at me because i back bitched about her(thats what her close friend(C) told her)..i explained everything to her.. i am in contact with her only through fb.. she is not online most of the times..although she believed me..yesterday her close frnd(C) messaged me and threatened me to stay in my limits because i was filling her ears about him...i told him that mistake was his... now i am worried that he can easily influence my crush coz he is her close friends and they live only a block apart and also on whatsapp...i have no source to tell her my side of story..she would not believe me..not against him..i always fear that if i offend her close friends my chances of friendship with her will reduce considerably.i cant think of forgetting her..even if i try..i only hurt myself...her friendship is what keeps me motivated towards life...please help me..

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  • Anonymous
    6 years ago

    best thing to do is win over her bestie, once you got him, you got her, be nice and everything good to him good luck

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