pls help me...ny life sucks..i cant feel positive...like never ?

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i am 19 year old boy...my parents and older brother always fight amongst themelves...everyday they find a reason to pick on each other and start a bigggg fyt...naturally atmosphere always remains negative because of all this...and i become depressed and full of self doubts because my mom always taunts me on small things and always discourages me..she lets me know that i am less important than boys of my age..i feel inferior to them coz i am a nerd(i am good in studies..nthng else).. i am embarrased by the way we live..no ettiquetes,no manners at all in our family..thats why i am socially awkward too....i have no confidence in myself...and i fear the worst all the time..because of my past.i ve been defrauded and cheated a lot of times..i live in negative environment..its very hard to stay positive and feel positivity...i have no good freinds at all...i rarely go out..i feel depressed most of the times....i have tried severall times to tell my parents how much their behaviour hurts me..but they never listen...they say its yur destiny because u were born in this family...i feel i will never get what i want even if i work hard...i always remain depressed because of atmosphere in my home...i cant feel positive...

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i feel i will never be cheerful...i will always remain behind others and lag behind...things will never improve...please help me..please....i have taken it for almost 20 years...i cant take it anymore..seriously..i am tired...both mentally and emotionally..i feel so lonely....there are always various things spinning through my mind at once...like i will never get loved and never find true love because i am a nerd..like i will fail in my exams..i always feel down

Conner · Answer

I am also a 19 year old male, I am currently going through depression and severe anxitaty (on meds for both) Its not fun. Not at all, constantly feel like Shite, always worried about something or other. Its not something that can just be fixed over night. It takes time. A long time sometime. Sometimes it never gets fixed. Sometimes it helps just to talk to someone. Just get everything off your chest. If you need someone to talk to im here. If you would like i can give you my email adress and we can talk? Don't have to its just an offer. Hope you start cheering up soon :)

Eileen Wright · Answer

You're not a 19 year-old boy.  You're too old to be a boy.  Move out and become a man, and you won't have to put up with what you are complaining about.  You'll become more positive when you become more independent.

Anonymous · Answer

Well, you can always run off and join the military. Leave your family behind and start a new life on a ship or at a base. As long as you aren't actually diagnosed with depression. If you are, you won't get in.

Anonymous · Answer

stop using the word 'sucks'  you sound like a common copycat piece of trash. and if you don't like your life, then only you can change it.

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pls help me...ny life sucks..i cant feel positive...like never ?

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