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I feel nostalgic and anxious...how to get over my feelings ?
I feel longing for that time when i was completely innocent and childish(still am)..no girls on my mind,no technology to screw us over....just play with neighbourhood friends and study hard were goals of life.everything seemed fine...but boy..things have changed now..everyone has grown up and become more cunning and cruel...i dont know how to manipulate and trick people..but past experiences have told me its necessary in today's world..but when i think of that i am horrified to think that i have to become like this..my innocent face of childhood comes in front of me and it makes me cry and feel nostalgic..that why all bad things had to happen??..when i see face of my mom...she has innocent face and is so worried about me....i am melted and feel i shouldn't become like other people..i am 21.i never had any female friend..dont know how to talk to and behave around girls.. i feel despo and perverted everytime i see a girl..and i fear that i may misbehave with girl as i dont know social ettiquites and have desperate feelings... i dont know how will i survive in this cunning world....
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- Anonymous4 years ago
"i fear that i may misbehave with girl as i dont know social ettiquites and have desperate feelings.."
The worst thing you can do to a woman is putting your hands on her inappropriately. At least control yourself physically. But as for what you may say or act, dude, women are no better or less of a human than you. We're all human. So, don't give up so much power like that. Just relax. Be respectful and talk about repeatable things when you first engage with her. You can't be perfect, and if a woman expects you to be, run the other way, FAST.
As far as nostalgia and wanting your childhood days back, you are not alone. I'm 30 years old and I can't stand the millennial years. I want the 90s back. Cell phones and social media has made almost everybody STUPID. We film fights and brawls before we ever think to go help the victim. We cross the street on our phones without looking. We kill and critically hurt people will driving with our cell phones up. We freak out if somebody doesn't text within the next minute. We're worried about 'likes', 'friend's requests' and the most views than we are about our actual lives and goals. We have become incredibly stupid.
I would love to be eight years old again, sitting in front of the tv watching power rangers, and waiting for that knock at the door for a neighborhood friend to come join her/him outside to play. Times have changed and I'm starting to notice that the more I age, the more I hate change, kind of like the people in their 50 to 70s who may not like where we are now or a couple of decades ago.
The best thing we can do is make the most of our lives NOW. Go out there in the world and live. Join volunteer work and organizations. Be busy. Travel, meet people, learn cultures, etc.