My parents are divorced and I wan't to live at one house.?

My parents have been divourced for about a few years now. I have been going back in forth between my moms and my dads. monday tuesday and first half of wednsday at my dads, second half of wednsday,thursday, friday at my moms. I take turns on weekends. I have become fed up with it. I hate lugging my homework, clothes, etc. everywhere ALL THE TIME. My mom lives on the edge of a different city as well so I'm nowhere near my friends. I also don't have a good realationship with my mom. It always seems like we're fighting. I really want to live at my dads. Not only am I more comfortable there, he has a computer so I'm able to write my essays and hand in my homework, check the homework board etc. when at my moms she only has a laptop that is very slow and hard to use. It's more comfortable, practical, and over all just makes me happier to be at my dads house. I already talked to them about it and they said that they could't because they wan't to raise me equaly and to be with my sister all the time. They want what "Best For Me" but going back and forth isnt that. I always feel uncomfortable and annoyed at my moms. How do i explain that while convincing them without hurting someones feelings? When i first brought it up my mom wouldn't speak to me. ALL DAY. PLEASE HELP!!