Are all men hypocrite like that? We are fighting everyday as newly wed.?

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My husband and I are newly wed, but we lived together since we first date.
Our room-mate moved out and left behind his dog, that I took care most of the time anyway.
So this dog was from shelter and act more sensitive toward food and man.

Recently my dog developed an attitude toward my husband (because my husband practically hurt him a few time), now he would growl to my husband in the house and has a tendency not letting him walk by the hallway to our bedroom.

Well, he is stress, I understand, and I try to convinced him to feed him to build a relationship with him,
he said he wants nothing to do with this dog, it would be fine if they are peace with each other, now I have to leave whatever I do when ever he needs to walk to the bedroom if my dog is here.

I brought both of them into  training center, and the trainer recommend a few things, and he was so pleasant and agree with the trainer.

When I suggest him to feed, he yelled and said I want nothing to do with this dog. SO I asked, you were faking all these time during the session, he said YES.

The vibe at home is bad, I don't feel comfortable doing anything around him, we don't have common interest and things to talk. I feel like we are very apart.

But I love this dog despite all his problems, the dog listens to my commands and all and all and I never have a problem living with this dog.

What should I do.

Elle · Accepted Answer

While it seems like the dog just needs a bit of training, your husband sounds like a douchebag. Sorry. 
Try explaining how much you've grown to be attached to the dog and how much it'd mean to you for the dog and him to be able to get along. And at the very least he should make the effort just for you to make you happy. Over the years I see him never being able set aside his difference to do something nice for you. Or go out of his way.

? · Answer

I believe this question to be a large load of bovine excrement of the steaming type, first. Second, the supposed dog is not the problem, its you and your husband or maybe just you that has problems because what you mentioned at the end, has nothing to do with dogs, however, since you like this damn dog more than the man you married, take it and leave and go be happy with the dog whom you profess to love, despite all its problems, but, you cant love the human you married, despite his dislike for an animal.

Michael · Answer

Does your husband love you, or pehaps he is jealous that you are paying more attention to the dog than you are to him. If that s the case, then the only way to fix this is to let him know you love him more than the dog, and if he still doesn t budge, then I am sorry to say that he doesn t think you are worth the effort.

Anonymous · Answer

I'm sorry but your "story" doesn't make an ounce of sense, I'm calling troll.

Anonymous · Answer

You should train your dog , he should participate in that training . If neither of you are willing to put some work into that dog then you lose the right to complain .

jpopelish · Answer

I think both your husband and your dog want you to choose between them.  
Pick one or the other, or your husband and your dog will remain disgruntled.

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John Popelish

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