Why do i as a Cancer attract detached women =(?

Since cancers are very emotionally involved people it could be an opposites attract scenario. Maybe you want the doting motherly type, but the majority of the time people are brought together as opposites because whatever one lacks in their mindset, the other person has and vice versa. Like a balance between the two. Maybe you should embrace her differences.

Just because someone does not react in the way you want or expect them to doesn't mean they don't care for you. In certain situations I'm a poker face...I purposefully choose not to react to any situation involving romance, especially if my heart has been bruised by him before. And maybe they were not the women you are supposed to be with.

I Thank Everyone for answering. It's just this particular matter really stresses me out =(. Sometimes i just care to much. Anyways thanks for whoever had the time to answer me. I wish i could give more than one best answer.

Well you said that your Venus is in Gemini, and Mars in aries....so I guess, you are drawn to ladies who are outwardly aloof, put together and can take care of themselves..... ??? Sounds cliched, but maybe aloof women/people need some love too and to be reminded that it's ok to be emotional??

I have Venus in Pisces, that too in 8th house. I have many people in my life who are extremely emotional, and sensitive. Though I struggle to understand the emotional point of view, ( I admit am not that good at emotional intelligence) I try my best to keep up with them. I make it clear, to them that though I cannot remind them every now and then how much they mean to me, if they need me I 'll always try to be there for them.

Because water signs can be clingy sometimes you gotta be a *****