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Why is everyone in a relationship except me?

I'm a 21 year old male college student. When I was in middle school everyone had either been dating or already have dated. Heck in high school everyone I knew had girlfriends and boyfriends. I even listened to people that were crying over a breakup or a fight he or she had. Or there were people that just randomly lost their virginity and it just seemed like I was missing out on a lot.

Now before you say, "Those people aren't even dating the right people" ask yourself this: if it's that easy then why has it never happened to me?

Update:

When I ask someone out they're usually like, "Oh...I only see you as a friend" or "I just got out of a relationship so I'm not in the mood for dating". My friends have tried to help me but it didn't make a single difference. When I do go out on dates it never gets any further than that. No kiss, no second date, no nothing

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  • Anonymous
    6 years ago

    Are you a tall white guy? Apparently you are not, because if you had been a tall white guy, you would have had 20 girls lined up outside your house every night, waiting to take a number.

    The reason all other guys are in a relationship is because they are tall and white.

    Tall white guys are the superior master race. They are God's gift to women. Women know this.

    So a tall white guy will never be single and lonely. They all have girlfriends.

    So if you want to be in a relationship you need to grow taller and become white.

    Having a girlfriend is a luxury reserved for tall white guys.

    Unless you are tall and white, no girl will want to date you.

    Welcome to cruel, harsh reality.

  • 6 years ago

    dont worry, im 23 today and it hasn't happened to me either. For myself, I take things very slow and I am very cautious, it's my own choice. I don't see anything wrong with it, i just think it's really how you see it. Do you put urself out there?

  • Bella
    Lv 4
    6 years ago

    look, some people date people they really shouldnt have. and they really regret those mistakes.

    so far you havent made any of those mistakes.

    have you ever asked a girl out? usually girls like a guy to ask her out.

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