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I'm a perpetually single person at 23 years old, bisexual male. I ask for advice from friends that are in relationships and they either give me advice that doesn't work or just not give me any at all. Why do people do this?

The power in my bedroom was working just fine before I left for the weekend to cat sit. When I came back though the lights would not turn on and the fan would not start. The plugs do not work either. What may have caused this and what can I do to fix it?

I have a friend who hates me now because of a past conflict we had. Here's the twist though: He's in a relationship with a guy that often gets angry with him and sometimes even gets physical with him. Yet everytime they breakup he always forgives him for those things. My friend has me blocked on every social media I know of. How can I help him when he doesn't want me around anymore?

I know this is probably a stupid question but I was just wondering....I know they do it for the money but do they also think highly of themselves to where they believe people would want to have sex with them?

There's this guy that I had been seeing and he's a nice guy....but I met somebody else. Like I said he's a really nice guy and I don't want to completely destroy him just telling him that I've moved on. I just want us to be friends now. So how do I go about as far as what to say when the time comes?

Britain was quite well known for it's Christianity and even the Queen seems to keep it alive in some aspect. But how come all of a sudden people in the UK overall do not claim to have a religion? Did something happen that may have caused this?

I'm a male 21 years old and never been in a relationship before. Everyone out there is either dating, or has dated at least once. Heck I hear all the time how someone accidentally had sex with somebody or made out with somebody even though they didn't love each other. All of this happens to everyone around me except for me.

I often ask friends or family members about my lack of dating experience and their response is always the cliché "Don't worry there's someone out there for you. It may not happen now but it will happen." I have been alone for 21 years. Is that not long enough? Then they go on talking about their bad experiences with dating and my response is "Well if it's that easy then why didn't it happen to me?"

Why do people give you all this useless information?

I personally would like to start my own life over in another country for a few reasons. One is that I seem to be able to make more friends from that country. I cannot find love in my area as everyone seems to already be in some type of relationship and I'm just that odd one that nobody wants. I wish to move to that city in that country because living seems very affordable. I wish to move there because of the fact most people are politically conservative as I am.

What are some reasons you can come up with?

I'm a 21 year old male college student. When I was in middle school everyone had either been dating or already have dated. Heck in high school everyone I knew had girlfriends and boyfriends. I even listened to people that were crying over a breakup or a fight he or she had. Or there were people that just randomly lost their virginity and it just seemed like I was missing out on a lot.

Now before you say, "Those people aren't even dating the right people" ask yourself this: if it's that easy then why has it never happened to me?

Here's the thing: They speak of justice and equality yet they attack those who believe in what they do not. They make posts on social media about how "Religion is the cause of violence and all these horrible things" and it is justified as a "righteous point of view". However when someone religious challenges them to that point of view they are accused of "preaching" when the Humanist was the one talking about religion first. They make claims about religious people killing all those who aren't of their religion and yet they ignore dictators like Mao Zedong that wanted to exterminate those who ARE religious in favor of a more "rational and scientific" way to govern the people.

I always thought that a healthy sex life meant for you to do that with your husband/wife and just the way you do it creates a bond as well as love for each other. However when I hear other people talk about a healthy sex life they talk about how much you have sex regardless of whom with. What's your take on it?

I ordered a fleshlight and it said it would be coming to my house in about a month or so. Until then I am trying to cook up a good plan to smuggle it in without anyone noticing. I know the packaging is discreet but my paranoia tells me my dad might look up what the abbreviation stands for. Should I wait outside for it and hide it in my car until nobody is home? If you have a better plan please share. Much appreciated.

Im 21, male, and i live in the state of Texas. When I was around 5-6 years old I was misdiagnosed with autism. I discovered that it was a wrong diagnosis when I was a teenager around 14 years old.

As a child I was given risperdol by my psychiatrist as a medication to "calm me down". Because of the diagnosis I was placed in regular classes with special ed accomodations. Even though it was confirmed that I was not autistic the special ed dept did not release me until I was a junior in high school.

I'm 21, male and I think I am suffering from Body Dysmorphic Disorder. Everytime I'm alone and I look at myself I'm disgusted at what I see. I do my hair in a certain way to hide a mole on my forehead. I have some scars on my chest that I am paying money to get them removed even though I can hardly afford it. I often find myself comparing my own height to those that may be shorter or taller than I am because I envy those who are 6 ft or taller. My eyebrows are so bushy and thick that I often pluck them until they are in the shape I wish. I freak out about my body hair because I have quite hairy legs even for a guy. All of this has cause me depression and it's scaring me. No this is not vanity, I don't love myself, I hate myself, I wish I were somebody else. How can I deal with this problem so I can love myself again?

I'm male, 21 years old, college student. I really have come to hate myself because of how lonely I feel.

My friends have all scattered and gone to different colleges so I'm left on my own. My parents are divorced and I live with my dad who can hardly care about me.

I've never been in a relationship before so that has also put a damper on me. I still remember sitting in the back of that limo with my friends who all had prom dates but me.

Because I've never been in a relationship I started to develop signs of body dysmorphia. I am embarassed to go out not looking a certain way. I eat certain foods that might affect me to make me look better than I do. I have scars on my chest that I am paying unbelievable amounts of money to get rid of. I still look at myself even if there doesn't seem to be anything wrong to others I point it out to them. I often scrutinize others and their perfect skin, their height, or their physique, etc.

I really wish I were somebody else so I wouldn't feel so alone and sad and hating myself.

I m a 21 yr old male and I have become obsessed with my physical appearance. I have a "ritual" where I will only eat certain foods so I will feel energized to excercise. I often excercise to maintain my height (I m 5 10 and I envy those who are 6 ft and over). I have these embarassing scars that I am paying to get removed even though I can t afford it. I will stay out of the sun as much as I can so I can avoid unevenness on my skin. I often mentally scrutinize other people s appearances comparing them to mine. I have to have my hair a certain way or else I don t feel up to par. I shave so close to my skin to where I almost bleed. Everytime someone hears me say that I m ugly they think I m just saying it for attention. When in reality I mean it: I feel like my body is defective in some way or another. I think this might have spawned from the fact that I never have been in a relationship. I ve been on a date once but it never went any further than that. On that note do you think I might have bdd?

My dog is 13 years old and has never had fleas since he was a puppy. But this woman that my dad is seeing moved in and brought her dog along with and he has fleas and passed them onto my dog and I am mad. Please I have never had to deal with this.

I'm a Libra and I'm pretty good friends with a couple of Taurus people. I guess it's because we're both ruled by Venus and we share a love for beauty as well as the arts. What other signs can we make good friends with?