Yahoo Answers is shutting down on May 4th, 2021 (Eastern Time) and beginning April 20th, 2021 (Eastern Time) the Yahoo Answers website will be in read-only mode. There will be no changes to other Yahoo properties or services, or your Yahoo account. You can find more information about the Yahoo Answers shutdown and how to download your data on this help page.

weird pressure during sex?

I just lost my virginity and it wasn't bad, but at certain angles it was uncomfortable and bordering painful. When he lifted my hips and trusted I got a weird pressure/pain in my abdomen and it was awful, it went away when my hips were flat again. And then a couple times, usually happens when he's fingering me, it feels like my rectum is being poked repeatedly until the angle changes. What is this and how do I stop this?

I'm 18 btw

2 Answers

Relevance
  • Ginger
    Lv 4
    6 years ago

    He might be hitting your cervix at certain angles, which can cause pain in your abdominal area. Speak up when you feel uncomfortable or painful, and ask to change positions or for him to be more gentle. Communication is key! As for the pressure on your rectum when getting fingered, again it's just the angle. The only way to alleviate that is by changing the angle/position. Your vagina is very close to your urethra and your rectum, so pressure on those areas is common during sex/fingering/etc.

  • Lara
    Lv 7
    6 years ago

    It might just be a bad angle. It is possible he is going too deep.

Still have questions? Get your answers by asking now.