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We have recently found out we are expecting our third child. We wanted to keep it to ourselves until we had seen the gynecologist to make sure all was ok. However..as many parents will know it's so hard not to!! So I told my mum and she swore I keep it secret. I also made it very clear to het that two members in particular I wanted to keep it from as we aren't on good terms although she is. With her "of course you can trust me!! I'm your mum!! If you can't tell me who can you tell??" Last night I found out she's called round and told most people..I'm fuming! I feel she betrayed our trust and not to mention rained on our parade, am I stupid in feeling like this?

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  • 6 years ago

    No way. She lied to you and did betray your trust. You have every right to be upset and to keep things from her in the future too. She made a promise and since she didn't keep that promise, you do not have to trust her anymore.

  • 6 years ago

    no, its a normal reaction i was annnoyed with my dauughter because she told other people she was pregnant before her own mum she did have bleeding on and off and explained she wanted to get into the 2nd trimester before telling anyone but all was forgiven because as soon as i saw my grandaughtter albeit 3 months early i am smitten lol

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