Am I with the wrong person?

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Maybe that s not the place for this question because noone really knows my situation , but regardless of how my boyfriend treat me ( and he really loves me alot) I am asking myself question like is he the right for me.  I am 27y old , financially independent, responsible, working, understandable. I love talking to people and I love making them happy regardless of what is my connection to them , even if I see a homeless person it warms my heart to see him smiling from something that I told him or gave him. Even if I just tell him: God bless u , have a beautiful day!
After all that doesnt cost anything. This is who I am.
My boyfriend on the other side respond with the same that people respond to him. If someone is angry to him, he is also angy to them. 
I dont want to be like that. For me integrity is everything and it reflects my moral values , not theirs. 
I strive to treat people with respect and honor, regardless of what their status in society is. I love talkint to people, encouraging them. Life is hard, why should I make it even harder. 
Lets be happy. There are so many good things in life
Am I with the wrong person?

Anonymous · Answer

Yes.  You will not be able to have the loving, mutual  and happy relationship you want and deserve with this guy, even if he does love you and he's a good man generally.  You are positive and he is negative.  You might think "Oh, I'll change him," but that never works.  Instead, his negativity will drag you down.  Lovingly kick him to the curb and make space for that truly positive guy who wants to come into your life.

Tepee · Answer

It sounds like you and your boyfriend have polar-opposite personalities and I doubt he would ever change his attitude.   Unless you are totally devoted to him otherwise it may be in your best interest to look for a more compatible mate.   You sound very sweet and he is a grouch so I can't imagine you being happy if you married him.

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