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Is 1.5 months into a relationship a long time without having sex yet? Somewhat frustrated?
I'm 22 almost 23. Not a virgin whatsoever. and my GF just turned 19 recently and is a virgin. We've done about everything but actual intercourse. She's never given a ******* and is kind of afraid to try, but I've definitely gone down on her plenty.
On our one month day I brought her to my apartment and we were about to have sex and she said she wasn't ready. So we just went back to fooling around like we usually do. I didn't get mad at her or anything. I completely respect her choices and feelings.
We recently said that we loved each other. She's been in three relationships before me and never loved those partners, so she was sure when she loved me. I'm also pretty sure that she wanted us to love each other before we had sex.
Her parents like me a lot, in fact I'm her only boyfriend that her parents ever liked, but they are extremely overprotective. We aren't allowed to go in her bedroom alone. Which also means I haven't slept over her place yet nor am I allowed.
She also doesn't own a car, so I have to drive to her place 25 minutes away 3-4 times a week to see her. And when she comes to my place (which is once a week or less) I also drive her there. She isn't allowed to sleep over my place of course either, because yes her parents are still super protective.
So when we get intimate its usually in her family room while her parents are in their bedroom. No way we'll be able to have sex out there. We can only have sex when no one is home (which is almost completely never), or when she is at my place.
The frustrating part is that when we finally do have sex that we surely won't be able to have it as often as we want. Probably once or twice a week. Its not her fault whatsoever, but definitely going to be frustrating for both of us.
I think because she is still a virgin that it isn't long, but if she wasn't a virgin then it would be long.
