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Girlfriend is a virgin and still not ready for sex?
How long is too long?
We've been together for almost 2 months and I really thought she has been ready for sex the past couple weeks. She has hinted at it. She pretty much plainly said she wants it. Then yesterday when we're fooling around and I ask her at the perfect time if she's ready, again she's not ready. I don't get mad at her, I respect her, but when would she be ready?
She finally started asking me what I think is long without sex. She said 3 months, 4 months, 6 months? I said 6 months feels like a very, very long time. 4 months feels like a very long time. I said 3 months doesn't feel TOO long only because its a month away and we've been together for 2 months now. (though 3 months does feel long to me )
Guys I can wait. I love her more than anything, we both do. I'm not going to break up with her right now just because she's not ready. But you have to think, if it comes on 5 or 6 months and she's still at the same exact point of "not ready" and hasn't progressed at all...then how should I feel?
5 Answers
- yet-knish!Lv 76 years ago
If she still won't after you're married, then you've got an issue. Otherwise, it's her prerogative to stay a virgin as long as she wants.
- 6 years ago
She'll be ready when she'll be ready. Don't push her, let her decide. Try cuddling or just kissing her instead.
- Anonymous6 years ago
Try marrying her. Maybe then she'll be ready, maybe she has something called MORALS.
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- ?Lv 66 years ago
well.. how about "it;s not about you"... you will know when's she read.... and it's about her being ready... not you...