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Please please please i need advice ASAP?
So my mom cheating on my dad
Basically she has a crappy job and she's so mean, and my dad is the nicest person ever in the world and he has a great job. The guy she's cheating on I know because when I was little I just knew him as my moms friend and idk why I'd suspect anything else. But, I know this is wrong and my fault, once I went through her phone for something stupid like finding out my Christmas presents and saw all their messages. She often says she's going to her best friends house but she goes to his house. He's one of those really annoying country people and has a lot of money but so does my dad! It's not like she's in an abusive relationship or anything. And for 7 years i had to go to this goddamn awful after school care place, even on my moms days off, and now I realise it wasn't because she was busy, it was because she wanted to see it. Every night I came home crying and she said there was nothing she could do. It was like $20 a day my dad had to pay out of his own wages too. Oh, and I found out that I was an accident and she didn't want to look after me so she was going to send me to boarding school at 4. But she didn't. I don't know what to do but anyway I'm not telling either of them I know. Thanks so much x
2 Answers
- 6 years ago
I think if you suspect your mother cheating on your father, you should tell your father. If you love your father, I do not think you want him getting hurt, the longer this will go on the longer your dad will be hurting. Maybe he should know before he finds out another way, other than you tell him. Because if he suspects you knew and did not tell him, he can also get hurt by that. You should speak to your mother, and see what she says about this, and just make sure you are doing the right thing. Not all parents are good, but you cannot hate either parent, unless they have done something really bad to you and so forth. Do not blame yourself for anything, you did not do anything wrong. But if your mom is being selfish, not caring for you or your father, I think it is best she goes off with that man, and your father can find someone better, who will love him.
