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How should I lose my Virginity (Question for the Experience)?

So... I am pretty new to sex. I mean, the physical part. I know all the positions and such, but I really don't know how to go about it. Should I talk dirty to her, then start kissing? Should I rub her leg then start talking dirty?

So basically, I want you to tell me how I should stimulate her to where it will lead to sex. And once the sex begins, tell me what positions I should do step by step.

P.S. The girl I am currently with wants me to have sex with her, and she likes that "Exploring" stuff. So go wild with your answers.

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  • 6 years ago

    If you want your first time to be a good experience and not regretful and awkward, make sure both you and her are comfortable leading up to sex. Timing and location may matter. It is natural to be nervous your first time though so don't worry about that.

    As far as dirty talk, I think it is overrated. Some people like it, some people don't, and many people do it because they feel obligated or think its necessary. Its not. If she says "Talk dirty to me," then go ahead and get nasty with it. Otherwise don't think about it. Over-thinking during the deed isn't fun.

    Take your time and don't jump into penetration right away. I suggest at least 20 mins of foreplay. This includes kissing, gently touching her body (especially in areas that don't get a lot of attention, like the arms, neck and back), and kissing her body (same deal as touching: neck, arms, back, etc.).

    Ask her what she likes. If she likes oral and you're cool with giving it to her, there's a certain technique for clitoral stimulation that may really wow her. Put your lips around the clit and suck in lightly to make it pop out. Don't use your teeth. Then flick it with the tip of your tongue as rapidly as you can. A few minutes of this can be enough to stimulate her, possibly even to the point of orgasm.

    After foreplay she'll likely tell you to put it in or she'll just do it herself. Everyone has their own favorite position(s), so just try whichever ones you want and switch positions when you feel like it or when she gets bored of the current one. Ask what her favorite is.

    That's it. Have fun

  • 6 years ago

    I have a weird creepy feeling you just want someone to detail it out for you so you can yerk-the-turkey. Go read some literotica. It'll tell you what you want.

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