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Am i Bi-Curious?

There is this girl at my school and she's bi. She likes me but shes dating another girl in the other class. at first i hesitated if i liked her or not but then it became clear i didnt like her and it was just my hormones because before she started dating, she would hug me and do things to me in which what couples would do so she had a thing for me. i guess it just wasnt normal for me because im always so used to a guy doing that and not a girl. anyways, i dont have any romantic feelings towards her at all nor do i get jealous when she is around her girlfriend.I have a boyfriend myself and so i dont feel anything towards her. but there were a few times where me and her almost kissed and i kept thinking "What if we did kiss?" and since then i've been having thoughts about her and wondering what it would be like to kiss a girl and makeout with one. i remember going into the bathroom only to find her making out with her girlfriend, and after seeing that i've wondered "i would like to do that too.." so.. am i bi-curious? or bi? because i HAVE dated a girl before, but that was online and i wanted to experiment.. I also have NEVER done anything with a girl before either..

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  • Anonymous
    6 years ago

    In our youth, we ALL have bi curiosities given the opportunity!!! When the hormones kick in everybody is fair game!!! We don't know exactly what it is we like & the only way to find out is to experiment. There is a difference between being bi & wondering what it would be like to be with the same sex!!!

  • 6 years ago

    At the beginning you said you weren't sure but also that you had these thoughts. Why don't you speak to her like ask her do you like me if she responds no then move on if yes see how you feel about it. That's what I would probably do.

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