Am I just being paranoid?

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I am 16, me and my boyfriend had sex for the first time on May 24, 2015. My last period was on May 7, 2015. We were protected, he used a condom, he didn't ejaculate in me, he pulled out before he came.

What are the chances of me being pregnant? Or maybe it's just PMS?

I've been getting symptoms of sore and heavy breasts, (much sore then they ever were) cramps, bloated, fatigue, trouble sleeping, upset stomach, and sometimes diarrhea, the day after we had sex. Is it normal to have pms symptoms like 2 weeks before a period?

But I am also a lot of stress right now, finals and grades and parents got me under stress and sometimes it's all I think about, not only that but the possibility of being pregnant at 16 gets me stressed out too. I haven't been this stressed in a while.

I am supposed to get my period this week, or hopefully soon but maybe the stress is prolonging the arrival of my period? I just want it already.

Please give me a peace of mind.

Jeanine · Answer

Condoms work really well. He also pulled out beforehand. You're definitely being paranoid, just relax.  You're definitely not pregnant. You can take a pregnancy test on the day your period is due. However, it's an expensive habit to take a pregnancy test every month when you don't really need to. I would recommend looking into a backup method in addition to condoms. Like the pill.

BillyTheKid · Answer

Pulling out is ineffective. Condoms are not always 100% effective either. It is likely, but yes, you could be pregnant. A visit to the gynecologist may be in order if you don't want to have your baby at your high school graduation.

? · Answer

It is PMS - I used condoms for 20 years after my daughter was born and I never got pregnant again so stop stressing, Good Luck

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