Attracted to a married man?

You need to stop entertaining the ideas and thoughts in your mind of being with him, stop going to have coffee with him. If you end up sleeping with him, which you will if you don't stop everything, this is what will happen. His wife will find out and be devastated, she will divorce him, and his two kids will grow up with a broken family. Also, your husband will feel completely horrible as well because his wife slept with another man, he will likely divorce you or at least the relationship will never be the same. This will all happen because you and that guy couldn't control yoursleves. But it's not to late yet. Respectfully tell each other you need to stop seeing each other completely. Realize that love is not just a feeling, it's an action you need to choose everyday towards your husband. Tell you husband you want to go on a romantic date because you miss him and clearly aren't getting enough attention from him.

Usually the best way to get over these little office romances is to have wild, hot sex one time after some work function. Then you'll both get it out of your system and can more on.

Seriously -- you can do that if you both want to have some fun, but you both need to be very careful that no one is falling in love. If that is a real risk, you need to stop the flirtation now.

No his wife won't leave him. She will make your life hell, she will get you fired from your job and make you lose everything. Her husband will hate you too by the time she is done with you...and that may be never! If I were you, i would start having coffee with my own husband and paying him attention before I go out and ruin somebody else's marriage.

" I know we both will never leave our respective spouses....:

Said thousands of people before they make the ultimate stupid decision and throw their marriage away. You need to end this NOW. You are playing a dangerous game and you will get burned. You never know who's watching you and your husband may already be suspicious....

Every time you want to flirt with him... remember you are betraying your husband and children. Perhaps that will help you to act like an adult instead of a teenager.

back off..he is married.