do you like your husband to always tell you what to do?

Well I guess it depends what way you're going about this. I am a very submissive person and I love BDSM foreplay and things of that nature in my daily life. But I don't need my husband telling me if I can use the bathroom or eat or simple things like that. We have common respect for each other as I think all people should have. You are nobodys slave

If his expertise level is higher regarding certain subjects; yes then I would follow his lead.

But there is no way that he has expertise knowledge on all subjects/situations...and I would certainly point out his assumptions, illogical and maybe even costing behaviour if he would be so unwise to always tell me what to do..and not see my brain as an extra asset.

Depends

No. I don't want anyone "always" telling me what to do. I don't mind someone asking me to do something, as I may ask others to do things as well.

As long as you're an adult and it's not a job, and you're doing everything you should after yourself, no one should tell you what to do

And no, I wouldn't allow that to happen

I do not expect nor appreciate anyone telling me what to do. I am a grown adult, not a child. I would not tolerate being treated like one.

I didn't, which is probably why I'm divorced.

no, I don't. But he acts like a know it all.

yes. he is the head of the home. but its with love not out of anger or better than me.

nope