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What is the punishment for a Muslim man to have an unmarried Muslim girl as a girlfriend,?

I am married, and I have a girlfriend that I like spending time with. I don't want to marry her. We spend time together, going out to dinner and driving around. We text and we have pet names, but no intercourse. I am 56 and she is 30. She makes me feel young. Is there a specific punishment for what I am doing? I recently returned to my prayers (all of them), but I can't let this girl go. I need to know the punishment.

Update:

BTW, I'm letting a co-worker use my user ID... this is NOT me !

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  • 6 years ago

    What about your wife!?!?! Have you thought about her feelings? This shows how selfish you are! You thought only about the way that woman made you feel, and now you think about the punishment you'll receive. What about your wife??? Do you think she won't get hurt??

    You're also playing with this woman's feelings, if she's not a gold digger. She sure thinks you'll marry her.

    Be honest and tell her that you won't get married, and that yes, you used her to spend some time, and do appologize. And go back home, bring your wife a gift and make her smile. You, then, go and pray and ask God to forgive you. Stay faithful!

  • 6 years ago

    you should ask your imam or read the quran to find the punishment for adultery. what you are doing is adultery. just because you are not having sex with her doesn't mean that you are not cheating on your wife. you are giving this woman a part of yourself that you should be giving to your wife.

    i am a christian and i know that the bible says that adulterers go to hell if they do not repent. i cannot believe it is much different for muslims.

  • 6 years ago

    You are married and still doing these things? I hope you haven't committed adultery. Think about your children at least.

  • Him
    Lv 7
    6 years ago

    You my friend, have just forfeited your 72 virgins. When you die, you will now spend eternity with a goat herder named Jamal.

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  • Anonymous
    6 years ago

    Enjoy hellfire! That is eternal punishment. You deserve it.

  • ?
    Lv 7
    6 years ago

    I think you should ask your WIFE what the punishment is - I'm sure she'd be happy to administer it.

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