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When a girl texts you "Hey we should grab coffee sometime next week!"?

So I know this girl that goes to my college who I met through a mutual friend. The only time we ever talk is when I see her in the library and we talk for a couple of minutes at most.

One day she saw me while I was working at my store and then texts me later that day saying "hey it was nice seeing you earlier, we should grab coffee sometime next week"

Is that a way of her asking me out? or is there any other meaning behind this?

I don't really know her that well or how she behaves towards other people/guys so was wondering what other people's opinion is.

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  • 6 years ago

    The older you get, the more female friends you will have. Just treat her as a friend, don't act all weird. Go out, have coffee together, eat some meals, watch some movies. Maybe she just needs a friend. And if she is pretty, just enjoy her company! Don't think so much at first. It probably has no meaning. Later, the more you start to hang out you can tell her you like her and just say you'll be happy to be her boyfriend or just remain friends is cool. I have a lot of female friends, no real meaning other than friendship.

  • Nancy
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    6 years ago

    I agree with JJJ. Don't overthink it or think she's into you or wants to sleep with you. While all that may be true, she may just be trying to be friendly and enjoy the short talks you have had in the past. Don't make such a big deal out of it. Having coffee with someone is a safe way to get to know them. There's no pressure of a dinner date or anything serious.

  • 6 years ago

    It's a way to get to know you, regardless of the reasoning she has, whether it's needing a friend or thinking you might be someone she could see herself with. Just go out and talkas friends, she will make it obvious of she is into you.

  • 6 years ago

    I would assume that she just asked you out.

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  • 6 years ago

    No idea just go with it.

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