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Help please ! Am I just being a idiot here ! Or do I have reason to worry and feel this way?
I went on A site for anxiety and depression they connect you with a listener that is supposed to help you feel better. I connected with a listener who was a guy we talked about all my problems in life including my problems with my boyfriend and stuff, he wanted to continue talking but had to work so I gave him my email and phone number but we never talked on phone only through emailing he was really nice saying I was beautiful and best of luck to me and my boyfriend I never once complimented him on his looks or anything just said he was a nice guy I thanked him for all the help and told him I'd be there if he needed help also he didn't have to go through it alone but then he asked me to runaway and I said I know we are helpful to each other but I can't just runaway with you I'm faithful to my boyfriend I then blocked him but anxiety flared up and I unblocked him and asked if I had come across flirtatious to him or something for him to say that and he said not once did I sound flirtacious nor of line and I did nothing wrong and he was only kidding he wasn't being serious , do I have reason to worry or have anxiety over this or am I just being really silly I never once said I liked this guy or wanted to be with him am I overthinking this? I have OCD and I struggle with overthinking things to the point where I feel like I've cheated so please help me with this. Much appreciated thank you I can't take anymore
3 Answers
- Anonymous5 years ago
That doesn't make you an idiot! Being for the most part unaffectionate is a trait, not an idiotic loss. I've been in a relationship for a year (almost exactly), and I'm a guy. I'm my girlfriend's version of that 'amazing boyfriend' you seem to have. The thing is.. Guys don't like always having to be the ones to start things. We know, guys should always make the first move, blah blah, but once you've been together long enough, it doesn't work that way. You can do what you feel. If you want to kiss him, you do it. The only way to truly show him that you love him is to become at least a little bit more affectionate. Even a little improvement will tell him you care enough to be better, and that should be enough for your amazing boyfriend.
- 6 years ago
It's A okay to be anxious. But honestly, I wouldn't worry about it. Stuff like this passes over. You'll forget about it in no time! But stay safe and if you are under the age of 18 then I would tell my parents if he is harrasing you. Best of luck!
Source(s): Dealt with these kinds of things before - SteveLv 76 years ago
No you didn't do anything wrong. You don't have to worry about this unless this guy won't leave you alone if you ask him to leave you alone. But in the future, know that talking to someone of similar age of the opposite sex about problems with your significant other can very often lead to crossed signals. Trained counselors will never do this unless there is a fellow counselor of the opposite sex to help prevent feelings of sympathy becoming feelings of intimacy. In the future, I suggest only talking to a female about your relationship troubles.
