Boyfriend threaten to leave me if I got plastic surgery. What should I do?

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I've always felt self conscious about my body and the way I look and fhat has affected the relationship between us. Whenever a hot girl with big breasts and nice body I get self conscious and assume he's looking at her. I wouldn't consider myself ugly but I definitely don't look like those hot blonde porn stars that every boy fantizes about. I told my boyfriend I wanted breast implants and he threaten to leave me if I got that because then it means that he didn't do his job to make me feel beautiful and that I need a surgery to make me feel good about myself instead of him. But it isn't his fault I know he thinks I'm beautiful but there's so much someone can do for you. I'm doing This for myself so I won't be paranoid all the time and feel good about myself

Chris Sellick · Accepted Answer

You need to accept yourself as you. Dont compare yourself to those porn stars.
You need to deal with your insecurities and your low self esteem. You can do an online search for "Faster E.F.T". Its a technique you do yourself and it will solve all your emotional issues.

Your boyfriend doesnt want you to have surgery. He accepts you as you are you can too.

Anonymous · Answer

He should love you for you if you wanna go have plastic surgery go do it id say if he leaves you let him just because you don't like something about yourself and wanna change it he wants to leave you if he does let him I'm sure you can find someone better.

? · Answer

If you're really serious about him, it might be he likes you just the way you are and only looks at big boobed women because he's a guiy and that's normal, not that he really wants them. Men can look and appreciate other womenj with boobs or butts or legs, but that doesn't mean they really want to be with them over you.

Sophan N · Answer

I think you don't understand that you have a very nice boyfriend.He do that because he is serous deeply in love with you.He afraid that your health will be in danger in the future.If he just think of you like sex machine then he will let you do as you please.It man nature to look at big boob or big butt because it attractive but it doesn't mean we're all love it and want our girl turn out like that.

MoneyMen · Answer

So essentially your boyfriend is telling you that your value in the world is only defined by his 'performance' as a boyfriend?   He sounds like a selfish dooshbag.  You should dump him regardless of what you decide on the implants (which btw you should go for -- if it'll make YOU feel beautiful that's what matters).

Vikings · Answer

I think you should listen to him. All that matters is what he thinks of your boobs. You do know there is a chance the surgery doesn't go good at all? And then your boobs look terrible...

aneey · Answer

If you are doing this for yourself and not for him he needs to understand it's what will make you happy and accept that. Do what makes you happy

Anonymous · Answer

I don't know

Max Hoopla · Answer

Leave well enough alone.

Anonymous · Answer

Dont do it youll be unhappy!

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