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Very confused, I don't know what to do?
I really like this girl and we were best friends and was going on dates and hanging out and then she took her "friend" to lunch for his birthday and she hasn't been the same for the last week. Well it's her birthday today and we had plans and she didn't let me know until just now she has other plans. I just bought her, her favorite flowers. I spent $75 on them and now I don't even want to give them to her. I was hoping we could fix things tonight. I don't even know why she won't talk to me. It's like she doesn't want me around anymore. :/ I should take the flowers to her because I don't have anymore else to give them too. I'm just lost and confused
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- ez2tock2Lv 76 years ago
NEVER, NEVER, NEVER spend BIG money on someone that IS NOT MARRIED to you. Even in a relationship, that kinda money can go to wasted. Thoughtful Gifts DO NOT mean EXPENSIVE... that is just STUPID.
My best advice, so that the flowers don't go to waste, is USE THEM to break the ice with other girls. Girls will understand and probably be impressed that SOMEONE Gave THEM A FLOWER.
"Hi. These were for my Date, but I got stood up. I think you would look MUCH PRETTIER with a flower. Would you like one?"
If she starts asking questions, you just made a contact. If you give them all out... EVEN to girls you don't consider that attractive, you will make them feel special or at least SEEN. In any case, your flowers and money served a purpose.
Your friend, probably met a Player who does stuff like this to gain cooperation. Even if she already knows him. He could still be a Player.
She could end up getting used. I don't know if that is a Good Thing or a Bad Thing... your call.
