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I know this is going to sound pretty pathetic, but I'm a slow mover! So tonight is going to make the 5th date with this girl I really like. She likes me too, and I apologized to her because I feel like I'm moving pretty slow, but she says she respects me for going slow so she can trust me and understand her feelings for me. We are both in college but this is my first time ever being in a relationship this far with a girl. I'm new to all of this and I'm still trying to figure how things work. I just don't know how about going in for a the kiss. After every date I've walked her up to the door and we kinda stand there and say I've had a really good time and kinda look at each other then usually I get pretty nervous and we just hug. I don't know the steps about how to go for the kiss. Any advice would be great! Thanks everyone!

I really like this girl and we were best friends and was going on dates and hanging out and then she took her "friend" to lunch for his birthday and she hasn't been the same for the last week. Well it's her birthday today and we had plans and she didn't let me know until just now she has other plans. I just bought her, her favorite flowers. I spent $75 on them and now I don't even want to give them to her. I was hoping we could fix things tonight. I don't even know why she won't talk to me. It's like she doesn't want me around anymore. :/ I should take the flowers to her because I don't have anymore else to give them too. I'm just lost and confused

Okay so first off, I've known this girl for 5 years, we both from a small town so you pretty much know everyone in school. One day at college she popped into a class on the first day and sat next to me. We stated talking and became closer friends than we were. We started to go on dates and really had a lot of fun together! I would go when she was at work and hang out with her and talk. We talk almost everyday, until late at night. We've gone on a road trip almost a month ago, and she told me she really likes me and was excited to see where things go about three weeks ago. I always tell her how much she means to me and how thankful I am for her. She is always making my day better! Then a week ago she told me she was going to take her friend to lunch for his birthday, I didn't think much of it and said it would be awesome to do that. Then since then she has hardly talked to me. She only responds to my text once or twice, I've asked her how she's been and that I really miss talking to her and I think about her a lot and she'll skirt around it like "I'm good" where before she would send a meaningful message. I just worry because this friend she took to lunch was an old boyfriend and I'm worried she rather be with him, after she's told me that he's a creep. I don't know what to think. I've never had a bad day with her, and I'm always telling her how beautiful, and amazing she is. But it seems like none of that matters anymore. I just need some advice, what can I do? Thanks.

I need some help! I've been going on dates with this girl and we've been talking for almost 7 months now. We go to the same college and went to the same high school and I've always considered her my friend. Everything has been going great! We talked everyday, been on numerous dates, and we hang out often, usually when she's at work I'll stop in for ice cream and we chat for a little. I really like her and she really likes me and we're seeing where things go. Not rushing it. But a week ago she told me she was going to take her friend out for lunch for his birthday, and that's good for her to do that stuff but since then, she's hardly talked to me, she won't even text me back. She told me she enjoys spending time with me and always tells me how sweet I am and now I'm lucky if I get a "hey" from her. I just feel hurt, we talked about a future and things were really looking up. I don't understand why she would be ignoring me, I know this friend she took for lunch and they were in a relationship through half of high school and I'm afraid she rather be with him. But she tells me she thinks he's a creep. I just can't understand how one week we are going on a date, talking to each other until late at night, and seeing each other. To not even being able to talk to her. I need help to get pasted all this or maybe someone can give me some understanding, or some advice on what to do. Thanks.

I really need some advice! So me and this girl have been on a few dates and I've fallen in love with her. She's perfect to me. Actually last night made our 3rd date, I'm a pretty shy guy and I've never been in a relationship before, or even held a girls hand yet, and haven't kissed anyone! I always want to grab her hand as were walking or at the movies and I really want to kiss her goodnight, I just get nervous and don't do it! I can't really tell if she wants to either. But I think she likes me she asked me out the last date and it was fun! But we have another one coming up and she might take a road trip with me! Any suggestions that could help me out? :) btw we are both college age.

Okay, me and this girl have been on a few dates lately and I love everything about her! Her personality and she's beautiful! We went to high school together and I found her in college we've been talking for a while now and gone on 3 dates. I'm kinda the shy guy that doesn't move very fast I haven't kissed her yet haha. But she asked me out the other day to go on a date with her, I said sure I would like that! Then that night after texting almost all day I told her she had a very beautiful heart and that she's the most amazing person I know, then she never responded but it was getting late that night so the next day I texted her "Hey!" Like around noon and she texted back and said I was very sweet and thanks for those kind words and I said it's just how I feel about you. Then she didn't text me back after that either.. But we have our date tonight and I'm a gentlemen so of course I'm going to find any way to pay for it, but maybe I told her my feelings to soon? I'm more of an affectionate and touchy guy and I feel I'm putting in more than I'm receiving. I really like this girl and I could see a future with her in just kinda confused because she says she loves spending time with me and stuff be she doesn't ever tell me her feelings or anything. Thanks for your help!

This semester I haven't done so great, first off the reason I fell behind in school is because I got a job that a department of the university sent a email out about saying this company was looking for positions, so I put on for it and I ended up getting this job, they did tell me when I interviewed that there was MANDATORY overtime for about 6 more weeks, and I was fine with that because we had a month for Christmas break, and at the beginning of the year the overtime would stop. I got the job mid November and I just quit because it hurt me so bad in school, I wasn't able to keep up and I withdrawed from my math class, got a UW in my art class, D in history, and D- in communications, I went to class but I didn't have time to do homework, I was working from 60-85 hours a week for almost 6 months! But I wasn't making any progress so I got my financial aid denied, but now I plan on working only 20 hours a week so I can focus on school, but now with only 20 hours a week I can afford to pay for school. I'm setting up a academic plan and meeting with counsellors, I know appeals rarely pass for work related stuff, but I was in a tough situation, if I didn't do the manditory overtime then I would have lost my job, and I need something to pay for gas and my car because I have to travel 20 miles to get to school. I'm just wanting to look for some answers and maybe some help to go about this. Thanks!

I have a brand new HP Laptop, and I ran the system requirements thing and the only thing that was wrong with it was my processor, I have a 1.35 GHz AMD Dual processor. I did download the free create a sim demo and it work perfectly fine, no lag, no freezing or anything. Do you think it will be okay for the full game? Thanks

I just ordered a HP laptop with 1.3GHz AMD E1-6010 processor with 1MB cache, Radeon R2 graphics, 4GB RAM, and an 500GB Hard drive. I haven't really been into the whole gaming thing but I saw sims 4 and I want it! I haven't played sims since the 1st game! So I was just wondering if my new laptop will handle it, if I'm going to spend the money I want to make sure it'll work! Thanks!

I just started college a month ago and I realize maybe a laptop would be a good investment. I'm going into mechanical engineering and the school gives us soildworks for our own computers. I've been looking at dell and hp with windows 8. I would like something with a lot of memory. I would look at macs but they are a little more out of my price range. So any ideas on what laptop to buy? I don't want a huge 17" so something that's pretty simple and wouldn't take up too much space. Something that would fit into my back pack would be good too! Thanks!

When is the best time to pay off your credit card? I have $275 for this month I need to pay off and I'm new to this game a little but I usually pay everything off just not the minimum. Last month I made two payments to keep my balance at $0 but this month I was going to pay differently. My goal is to build a good credit score. So the due date is 7/12 do I pay it all then? Or is it better to pay as soon as I can? I'm just confused, this is my first credit card. Thanks!

Hello! I have some questions about getting a auto loan. I'm 18 and I'm graduating high school and starting college in a couple months. I just got a new job making $12 a hour, and it's full time. Also I just got accepted for my first credit card to help build some credit. But my dad is also talking about me getting some wheels. And I'm pretty sure I know what I want. I'm looking at a 2004-2005 Chevy Avalanche. And I know I can get one from $9000-$11000. I know they have some first time auto loans you can get with limited/no credit from the credit union. My question is what is the interest rate on it? I would like to keep my payment below $250. I'll make about $2000 a month so I feel with insurance and gas I can afford it. Everyone will say that the avalanche will suck gas but I know they get around 17mpg and I figured the cost in gas. I just don't know where to start or what to do.

I'm 18 and I'm starting College in a couple months. I've been wondering if maybe a credit card would be a good thing to have. I just want one. And I won't use it to abuse it. If anything I'll use it to put gas on and pay it off in two weeks or at the end of every month in full. Just so I'm using it. I just don't know what all I need to do. I have some Ideas of what cards I want but I don't know how to go about it. Will I need a co signer? I make around $900 - $1100 a month. As of right now all I pay is part of my phone bill and gas in my parents car. Or until they let me get one of my own. I just would like some good info about credit cards and how everything works. I would get a line of credit but I just changed jobs and my cu won't give me a line of credit until I've been employed there for 6 months.. But I've had a job for over two years. So they know I get money. But I want to way to start building credit. Any tips? Thanks!

I'm 18 and looking at buying my first car. I used to drive my parents suburban until they sold it and I personally like having the bigger car. I'm a bigger guy and it gives me space and all the power I need. I'm looking at the 2002-2004 Chevy Avalanche. I kinda like them they look pretty cool. And I'm one to wash and wax it every two weeks and maintain it. I'm starting college in August and I'll live at home. But my current job gets me $800-$1000 a month. And they are going between $9000 - $11000 here. I was wondering how reliable they are, and what the pros and cons about them. And the buying process. I've never bought a car so I don't know what to expect. I know I need credit but I don't have any. But I am looking and places with their own financing or something. Any tips on buying process? Thanks!

I am graduating high school in 3 weeks and I'm going off to college. I drive my parents car because they would never let me get one and now I'm the age where I'm looking and they are talking about letting me get one. But I've driven a suburban most of my high school time and I loved it! But they sold it and now I drive a car. I think they have their pros and cons but I rather have a SUV or a truck. I want something that I can do things in. I've been looking at 2002-2005 Chevy Avalanche, Tahoe, and Silverado. And the 2008 Malibu. I know the car is best on mpg but like I said I rather have something bigger. I'm a bigger guy and I like to have that bigger vehicle. I make around $800 - $1000 a month. And when I drove the suburban I was able to afford it. So my questions are witch one of those is reliable and would best fit for me. And how can I start looking at buying one. Like I need credit, down payment, and other things. Can some one tell me about the buying process? Thanks! I think I personally like the Avalanche!

I am looking at a sales job, and this last Thursday I called to see if this dealership was hiring, and the guy told me my best bet was to come in and meet with a sales manager, well I ended up meeting with one of the head guys, he was really nice! He didn't have me fill out a application, he just got to know me and he wrote down my info and my goals, he said he would talk to his sales team and see if they would like another guy on the team, he said he would call back on Friday to let me know. Well Friday came and passed with no call. Then on Saturday I remembered I had a resume to give him but left it in the car so I called him to see if he would like a copy of it so he gave me his email. And he told me there was one guy that wasn't in the meeting so he wanted to talk to him, and he would let me know. But it's been 4 days and still nothing. When should I follow up with him? I don't want to sound desperate and pushy, but I don't want him to forget either! Please help! I would really love this job! Thanks!

Well, five days ago I called about a job and they said the best way was to come in and meet with a manager, so I met with this guy and he wrote down some of my info and my goals and I was starting college in the fall. And he said that he works with quite a bit if college kids. He said he had to meet with his sales team and he would call me back the next day. Well I didn't get a call but I remember I had a resume but I didn't give it to him so I called him and ask if he would like it and I sent it by email and so he have me his email to send it to. And when he was on the phone he said he's waiting to talk to one more sales guy. It's been three days since that convo. I really want to know if I got the job or not but I don't want to be a bother to him. So when should I call to see what is happening? Thanks!

I just recently applied to be a new car salesman at a Chevy Dealership, it's a smaller dealership maybe around 50 to 75 cars. But someone at school was telling me that most salesman get a demo car? I was just wondering how a demo works? Do you get it for so long? Do you pay for the gas in it? I'm really excited to start! I'm 18 and going to college so I think it would be a great job.

Im 18 and about to graduate high school next month, and I'm going to college for mechanical engineering. I want to be a engineer for GM. And I want to get my foot in the door. I want to work with GM products because that's where I want to be and I want a job were I can apply what I learn in school in a related job. Plus I think being a car salesman I can pay for some of my schooling then using loans all the time. I was just wondering if the engineering works with the car sales man? Plus, I'm looking to buy my first car within the next 6 months and maybe I'll figure out witch one I rather have. Thanks for your input! :)

I'm 18 and I'm graduating high school in May, and I'll be off to College. I've been looking at some and there are two that have my attention. The one I would like to get is the Journey Student Rewards from Capital One. It says it builds your credit. (But don't most credit cards?) and the other one I'm looking at is the Discover It for Students. But it doesn't say it helps build your credit? But maybe it does? I have no credit, I did make over a little $10,000 this last year. I just want something I can use for example like gas and then pay it off in a couple weeks. I'm also looking for something that will build credit, so I can get a good score and maintain it. I do have a checking and saving accounts with money in both. Are there any other cards I should look at? I'm new to this credit game so any info you can help me understand things would be great! Thanks!