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Did I have an orgasm or not?

When I masturbate, I have an orgasm that's intensely pleasurable, lasts a few seconds (usually 10-15) and when it's done, it's completely done and I'm back to normal.

I'm new to doing things with a partner. The other day I was with a guy and he was rubbing my clit and fingering me while sucking on my nipples and it felt really good. I felt the same buildup of pleasure I always do, but it was different this time. The pleasure plateaued at a good level, but it wasn't a short, intense burst as I usually achieve alone. It was a less intense, but longer lasting sensation of pleasure. And then I was too sensitive down there and asked him to stop touching me.

Are there different types of orgasm a woman can experience? Did I have an orgasm?

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  • 6 years ago

    The addition of a partner can make your orgasms less intense, since female orgasms are fussy buggers. It does sound like your hit your mark despite it being less intense. To increase your pleasure with your partner, literally show him how it's done! Make a sexy little game of it and see if that helps! And don't be afraid to communicate what feels good and what feels mind-blowing. They won't get better if they don't know what to do!

  • 6 years ago

    Was it sucking your nipples, rubbing your clit, or fingering inside that made you orgasm?

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